You know, I try to stay away. I try to cut the addiction, but somehow SRK always draws me back in. Is it gay for a man to have a woman penetrate his ass? It’s threads like this, and more specifically, responses like the ones in this thread that constantly remind me why I stay away anymore. BTW, I’m not ignorant to the irony that a thread that exemplifies why I avoid SRK is also the reason I decide to post. Anyways, back to the question, no it’s not gay. How is it possibly gay? Who is the recipient of the pleasure? A man. Who is the person giving the pleasure? A woman. that, my friends, is definitional heterosexual contact. Even if a girl is fucking a dude in the ass while he is thinking about a guy fucking him in the ass, it’s still heterosexual contact. The man may have homosexual desires, but that does not make the act of two opposite sex people engaging in sexual activity homosexual.
Now, to expand on this, let me pose a more apt question - does it make you gay or curious of gay sex to want anal stimulation? No, of course not. How you enjoy recieving pleasure is not homosexual or heterosexual. It is simply the enjoyment of pleasure. The sex of your desired partner more clearly defines this relationship. There is no grey area here. There is no discussion. Recieving pleasure from someone of the opposite sex, NO MATTER HOW THAT PEASURE IS RECIEVED, is heterosexual.
The male g-spot is in the ass. Your prostate, when stimulated, can provide the most intense orgasm you have ever had. Yes, it does take some getting used to, but as a student of human pleasure, and the various ways this pleasure can be derived, I can tell you that this is absolutely true. If you feel you are “gay” because you let a woman play with your ass or penetrate your ass, you most likely have issues with your own sexuality. At the end of the day, you simply have to ask yourself what sex you are sexually arroused by and that is the answer to your sexuality.
Okay, just because the anus has a lot of nerve endings that can cause pleasure doesn’t make it okay to play with it. It’s meant for exit only. We’re not built for that physically and mentally.
I don’t know what you want me to say besides what I’ve already said. It’s not so much about the pleasure as it is the act. It strips away your masculinity. You’re now admitting to this on an internet message forum where I don’t know who you are, where you work, or where you live. Would you be so free to admit you take a dildo in your ass to your intimate friends? I would wager no.
But women (can)take it in the ass. You’re saying they’re not built for it mentally and physically as well? Or are they because it’s a man plowing their ass?
u know whats funny is that the ppl i know that freak out and call everybody gay for butt stuff are usually really into butt stuff. like REALLY into it. obsessed, almost. actually, ya, obsessed.
Man, the act of a man getting penetrated in the ass is gay in itself. Nevermind if it is with a woman or not. I don’t just see how people can picture a man with his ass in the air getting plowed and not think it’s gay. I just don’t.
Gender isn’t just male or female. There are cultures that have various degrees of gender, one I know of has 5. People should worry less about what they enjoy and spend more time doing it.
This is indicative of the type of posts that I hate. We have a brain that forgoes the basics of “What we are built for…” - we aren’t built to fly but we do that. It’s one of the many advantages to being human, we can actually decide for ourselves what we were built for.