I don’t know if I am romantice, but I am nice…
I was thinking recently of things I have done when I was in relationship. I was in a convo with someone who was wondering what kind of guy I was so I told her I would make a list of the nice things I had done. She didn’t think I am capable of doing anything nice! PSH!
This is a list of things I have done nice in all my relationships totaled:
1.) Give advice to her
2.) Told her that I love her ever time I was on the phone with her
3.) Talk to her ever day once ever morning and once ever night
4.) Randomly told her I loved her
5.) Bought her flowers
6.) Took a her out to eat
7.) Once I had to sneak a girl in my house when she was having family issues. I made sure she had food and I worked hard to make sure she was comfortable.
8.) Gave a her money to graduate so she could do her dream
9.) Wiped her tears off her face anytime she cried near me
10.) Slept with her when she couldn’t sleep alone
11.) Gave her back rubs and massages if she was sore
12.) Believed in her when no one else believe she was going to pass
13.) Believed in her abilities when she didn’t think she could
14.) Defended her against her brother
15.) Defended her against her mother
16.) Looked at the stars and shared dreams
17.) Complemented her on her looks
18.) Cuddled with her
19.) Made her a cake when she graduated
20.) Drove her from work to home on some nights or some mornings
21.) Always look in her eyes and tell her how much I appreciate her
22.) Held her hand when she was discouraged or afraid
23.) Held in my own fears so she wouldn’t be
24.) Slept in my car for her when she needed a ride to school
25.) Listen to her thoughts when she wanted to tell me something personal about her or a problem
26.) Bought her clothes
27.) Kept a smile even if sometimes I was really down
28.) Met her at the movies as much as I could
29.) Had our own little spot in the shade to meet
30.) Helped her mom out even though I didn’t like her mother ( this lady did a lot of ignorant stuff to me just so u know; rude phone calls; blaming me for her daughter not graduating; called a drug dealer or something; etc.)
31.) Got a excurses member ship with her to help her with her dream
32.) Ran out side in red neck territory to help encourage her to run
33.) Started a blog for her
34.) Started a livejornal for her
35.) Started a Facebook for her
36.) Started a myspace for her
37.) Drove to another state to see her even if it was only for a night
38.) New a she was lying to me by played along cause I loved her
39.) Let her drive one of the dream cars she liked ( mini cooper it was a work car for me at the time)
That’s all I can think about so this should at least let u see I am somewhat of a nice person when I want to be. When looking at this list I did a lot more for someone then I did for any other but I highly doubt she would realize it or care about it. Anyway this next list is a thing I happened that I really wish I could have fixed better. Issues I had but I don’t think I performed them well enough:
1.) lost a girl cause I wasn’t rich enough or good looking enough
2.) Had a problem were I look as though I was cheating on few occasions and it sucked! Just bad stroke of luck I guess but I hated that feeling.
3.) Lost a girl to a person who I thought was a friend but wasn’t that later on got me jumped and I helped her out one last night when he was beating her… sometimes I wonder about that…
Come on, are you guys ashamed to admit that you are romantic?
