speaking of burritos:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2k64w3354kE
I know a lot of women look at me as competition for the attention of males. I’m what might be called a ‘lipstick lesbian’. For the most part I enjoy being girly and am attracted to women who are feminine in the classic sense. I’ve been accused more than once of just acting like I like girls to get the attention of guys, but those who come to understand my sexuality typically realize I’m not just acting out. And when this happens there’s generally a change in the dynamics of the interaction with other girls.
At best they’ll see me as a female friend that isn’t a threat to their man hunting. At worst they may get uncomfortable around me, paranoid that I’m going to hit on them or check them out. Most straight women fall somewhere in between those extremes. The idea that I’m in a committed relationship sometimes helps. As does that idea that just because I find women attractive doesn’t necessarily mean I find them specifically attractive, nor does it mean I want to push my sexuality onto anyone (which is in fact a pet peeve of mine…@Epidemic).
I say this because the interaction of lesbians and straight women is a completely different dynamic than the interaction of straight women. And considering only like 2% of the population are lesbian, I doubt there was a significant representation in this study. Truthfully, this study, like virtually all studies, is very hetero normative and assumes the participants are straight. I seriously doubt if an attractive woman walked in a lesbian would suddenly become passive aggressive. What would be interesting to me is if this study was repeated with lesbians.
So to answer your question: No. I find it both annoying and amusing when women get competitive with me for guys. I’ll keep on respecting the boundaries of straight women while checking them out. My girl is ok with that, and I’m ok with her checking out other women as well. That’s probably because we know that the chances of them actually being interested in other women is very low. Hell, even if another lesbian was hitting on my girl I doubt I’d be really threatened unless she was also a lipstick lesbian. Neither of us are attracted to masculinity. But if a non-butch lesbian was hitting on my girl…yeah, I could see myself getting catty.
2% lol, not from what I have seen, that shit has to be at like 15% nowadays. More like 2% of them are out there on front street…
Speaking of which what do you think about acts of female aggression against males?
A lot of people will experiment with their sexuality, but most people by far will end up in a heterosexual relationship.
Truthfully, I dislike having to take anything to the level of physical violence, regardless of sex or gender. I consider any unwarranted physical assault to be wrong. However, I do feel that if you’re going to physically respond to someone else you need to keep the response appropriate to their level of aggression.
In other words, if someone is going all out that doesn’t necessarily mean you should go all out too. Defending yourself is one thing, but hitting another person just because you were hit is more about pride or anger impulse than anything.
experiment with their sexuality huh?
So would you say one of those guys that had a wife and kids and lived like that for years and then later on went on to leave his wife for a man was just experimenting with his sexuality earlier?
I know some fellow gay men that have done that, partly out of being afraid of what they’re family would think if they were honest with themselves, some others to try and seewhat its like to live straight. Both are pretty fucked up IMO, the latter especially.
I remember very hot girl I met years ago, Im a big tits lover, she had small ones, but she has one of the nicest asses I ever seen, she really really wanted me, we end up fuckin like rabbits for a few days -she was on vacation- we exchanged e mails a few months, then it became a memorable experience, about a tear ago, I looked for her fb, comes to happen she became lesbian n she had a gf, I guess she had some failed hetero relationship or whatever.
it makes me think if back then when we met she had those tendencies, if it wasnt cuz she was on vacations, Im sure she could be a great gf for me
EDIT:besides the great body n face, she was great to talk with, great personality n sense of humor, there was chemistry
Theres too much of a hangup on straight or gay
Niggas should really be worrying about important things like not getting circumcised, swag, MvC2, being based, not killing people, and being based
It’s possible. But more than likely he was repressing his sexuality in order to fit into societal norms and got tired of the charade. Although I guess you could say he was experimenting with a more traditional lifestyle. In any case I feel sorry for the family that he’s now committed to. If my partner left me for a guy I know I’d be pretty messed up about it.
The experimenting I’m talking about is mostly from younger people who want to be special or different and thus claim a non-hetero sexuality. Even most people who claim to be bisexual end up in a heterosexual relationship, most likely due to the more limited rights and social stigma of same sex relationships. Older people do experiment, but this generally comes from being bored or curious and wanting to spice things up. These are people that probably should have done more sexual experimenting when they were younger but were deterred for one reason or another.
The whole point I was trying to make is the non-hetero dating pool is incredibly small. Consider about 5% of the population is gay, with about half of those being male and half being female. Then break it down by age, interests, personality, etc. and your numbers get really small really quick. For example, I’m not really interested in butch lesbians, so there goes a decent portion of the lesbian population for me.
time to eat some of these:
Hahahah. Cracks me the FUCK UP when threads like this get hijacked. The hijacking is the best part about it.
OP, you brought this shit to the *wrong *place. No matter WTF your intent is.
~K.
Damn those look tasty
It seems to me that you are limiting yourself kind of like those guys like above that are breast men that end having the best sex of their life with a flat chested whooty.
Lol my girl just said she doesn’t understand how a women can get by with just oral sex or toys since penis(mine to be specific)feel SO GOOD…and I can attest to the fact that she did indeed just leave a freakin puddle all around MY side of the bed…but yeah she was super wet and super horny and the funny thing is I KNEW she was horny before she did. Like I was sensing that she was restless and I was like someone is waking up to surprise head.
But like she said, i couldn’t imagine just going off of oral or toys or whatever when the REAL thing feels so much better. Like there is almost no control over it when it gets going, all the movements just happen when it gets to that peak and you lose your technique and just turn into the base and vulgar animal that you are inside. It’s too good imo. She said she wonders what would happen to those women that never had sex with a man and claimed to know that they were gay from an early age, if they ended up experience something like THAT then would they turn around and say “oops I think I might be bi!”
Yeah she’s crazy.
I read the first post, then like the next few a little (skimmed dem) and just ignored this thread hard for two days.
Now I accidentally clicked on it, I enjoy how it turned into food porn, although fuck you all because now I’m hungry.
Stay POSITIVE bruh
command of the commandments
Don’t hate, appreciate. :tup:
He is a people too, that eats, JUST LIKE YOU DO.
If you hit somebody, expect to get hit back. Tailoring a response to the level of aggression is fine and all, but if some random person slaps you in the face or punches you in the nose, take precautions to defend yourself. All the dumbasses saying YEAH JUST WALK AWAY BE THE BIGGER MAN don’t know shit about actual aggressive interaction thus it’s purely theory fighting shit. On the streets, if somebody is pissed off enough to slap you or punch you, if you turn your back, there is a really high chance that they’re going to hit you from behind and lay you out.
Women aren’t exempt from escalating to violence and the stereotype that girls are just gonna give you a tiny slap and then cry and eat icecream after is stupid. If you’ve been to a bar or a similar establishment and seen a girl try and fight somebody, there is eye gouging, face scratching, biting, hair pulling, punching, kicking, high heel stabbing and basically every other tactic than can be employed within the area. Dudes are all too eager to bend to societies expectation of letting them do what they want and hope they stop, but you’ll regret it when you lose sight in an eye or get a beer bottle in your neck.
As for the original topic: Duh? If you aren’t an invalid and can read basic body language, you pick up on that sorta shit when you hit puberty. From then on, complaints go from “I hate her cause she is mean!” to “Ugh, she’s such a bitch.” “Why?” “She’s so pretty, look at her, she must think she’s better than everyone else.” even if the girl complaining is pretty herself. If you dummies stopped worrying about trying to compete aesthetically with the rest of your countries population and instead worked on being somebody fun to hang around with and talk to, maybe you’d find some nicer dudes. Until then, I guess these bitches just gonna stay on tumblr complaining about the nigga that opens doors for pretty girls. 
Agress me with your clitoris…
The thread is the Gay.
I agree. He should stay in his own not another gay thread.