Locking shit up or selling it if they think to get cute and take it back.
That screams healthy relaionship.
What’s stopping them from going to a friend’s house? Words?
Burnt nuts probably won’t kill you; therefore, it is a rational response to perceived wrongdoing. [/this thread]
But seriously, if you want to follow this train of logic that treats beating as an all-purpose panacea for shitty child behavior, it never stops. Beat the kid. So what if it doesn’t work? Beat the kid again. If that doesn’t work, beat the kid again. If the kid is that obstinate, continue the beating in perpetuity. Yay, successful parenting!
Spankings shouldn’t be the end all to discipline but it shouldn’t be ruled out.
Hell, in some situations it is okay to slap the shit out of an adult if they are acting hysterical. It’s effective and in some situations it can save your life. But I get the feeling that some people here would try their darn bestest to try and talk a person out of there insanity. And I can see them both dying. el oh el.
Hopefully respect for their parents or the other parents. Seriously in this case with a chikld like you’re talking ahout they’d probably do this shit anyway whether you hit them or not unless you’re doign it till they fear for their life. A slap or a spanking I’m not against but stuff like the OP, what I went through physically and metnally, and other shit just isn’t OK nor should it ever be thought of as OK.
Aitn gonna lie, I’m hella biased about this subject due to things I went through and the way my relationship is with my dad. Each kid and parent is gonna respond to discipline differently.
Yeah, if said adult is trying to murder you with an ax.
If your kid is trying to murder you with an ax, I wholeheartedly endorse getting physical. That is a point at which I would definitely condone drop-kicking the little fucker.
If your only means of disciplining your 16 year old daughter is hitting her like that, you’re a bad parent. Treat others as you want to be treated, yadda yadda.
Every kid is different. You have to get creative, get them where it hurts.
Beatings and taking shit away isn’t working?
Show up to their school and embarrass them in front of their friends.
Kid won’t clean up his room? Is a slob? Take pictures, post it on his facebook page.
C’mon think a little.
When my mom used to take my Dreamcast away, I would just go get it from her closet and play it when she was at work and put it back like i never even touched it.
Shit don’t work, son
Your mom didn’t take you seriously. She should have taken it to work or sold it.
As a kid, there was a period of time when my parents stopped beating me; that’s when I stopped taking them seriously.
Don’t get me wrong, I still listened to them, but I wasn’t worried about what would happen to me if I didn’t. Getting grounded meant having to wait for my parents to fall asleep or leave the house before I could step out of the comforts of my room. When they took my video games away, I went to my friends house and played them. Having no TV or computer privileges meant not being able to watch TV or use the computer while they’re around to catch me. The only reason I didn’t test my parents directly was because of the distance fear of them getting 5 bars and activating that Dark Beating.
What is this “Reasoning with your child” and Spousal Abuse I’m reading? Since when did children become the equivalent of adults? If that’s the case then the next time they start acting up, kick them out and tell them to find a new place to live…On second thought, that’s pretty cruel. Give him a couple hundred bucks and tell them to go get a job.
Maybe your mom is dumb because she has no concept of lock and key.
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BWAHAHAHAHAHA
I am not talking about a maniac trying to kill you. If you want to go around slapping axe murderers than more power to you.
I can’t do this anymore. You don’t wanna spank your kids, i don’t give a fuck. I don’t wanna spank kids either, its time consuming and it makes you feel bad. But to have my rights as a person stripped away slowly by this bullshit world that wants my kids to call me Parental unit 1 and my wife PU2, whose only role is to throw money at them like an atm. As if it isn’t bad enough that our government actively tries to make them dumber and big business tries to peddle sex and everything under the sun to them regardless of their well being.
Fuck it. arrest the judge and take her away from her horrible family that gave her that pc, cellphone, room and board, and whatever, and make her a ward of the state. I don’t give a fuck cause we need less spoiled white whores in this world anyway. They are a dime a dozen.
I like how the other camp calls disciplining your kid by corporal punishment “abuse”. And then go one step further to refer to physically disciplining your child as beating your kid, so anybody associated with the act looks like a victim of hate or a fiend.
Some kids need the physical punishment, some don’t.
It isn’t some magical fairy land where its cut and dry. Just because you feel like you where abused by your parents, doesn’t mean all parents where as reckless as yours.
I didnt hear the audio…but that was jackshit. Hit me up when you’ve been punched in the gut, whooped with wooden brushes, switches, metal cooking spoons(Yeowtch), cords, belts with METAL on them, etc
Shit, my dp’s do more damage when I think about this stuff.
I think getting those sever beatings for doing the REALLY BAD stuff that I did…made me who I am. I’m not the type of person to go stealing and robbing people. I’m not some phsyco, anti social, or someone who is any more irretable the average person. Junk made my ass think twice about the concequences when I was growing up.
It’s obvious she’s going through that rebellious bs phase, recording her whoopings and shit. And I personally think the Internet aint for kids…my little brother browses the internet alot…and has already come brain numbing and perverted shit. My fam was actually going through this facebook issue a few weeks ago…deleting my little sis’s pages becuase of them getting a bit too fresh and putting all there business out there…
…I dont doubt that beating being justified. Parents, do what ya gotta do. Beat dat ass.
Oh god, another “That’s it? Dat ain’t shit. My parents beat me with a bassoon and whipped me with a coaxial cable” post.
You guys are so real.
you should stop pretending to be such an enlightened individual, and stop thinking that your parenting style fits all. Its funny you criticize him for this when earlier you said, “someone should kill him”. Obvious parents didn’t teach you the right manners.
you are so real.
I actually respect you say you have a personal bias,i do not agree with your viewpoint but i can see how experience has brought you to that viewpoint.
Show me where I said that.