I didn’t miss your point. If you were going to be a persistent little shit about the whole thing, then your mom’s mistake was leaving ways around it. She should have sold off your shit and phoned every other mom in the neighborhood to warn them that you would swear around their kids and turn them onto heroin.
Now we’re getting into another, related issue: parents who don’t stick to their guns and then wonder why their kids don’t respect their punishments.
Seriously? This is the Hank Hill fantasy of what happens when you don’t spank your kids.
Whats a fantasy? The fact that kids have more access to shit they didn’t have back in the day and also have more shit thrown in their face than ever before? Thats a fantasy? Or that legal nonsense makes it harder to be a parent in this day in age like it does everything else because of liabilities? Did I ever say that this shit is the result of not spanking your kids? Wtf man, just wtf…niggas as dense as the man of steel in this bitch.
Man, I thought that shit was over, then “Ah never got mah licks in!” 16 and she got dat ass…I’d like to see her now. And yeah, that beating wasn’t shit. Mom sounds kinda kinky, though: turn around, bend over and take it like a grown woman…wow.
Why would a child respect you, or your society, when you don’t respect them back? That “fine line” you speak of are applied to children only. I call bullshit already.
As far as the video goes, that was light compared to my childhood. As a child, I feared the beatings, but still did stupid shit. As a man, I can look back and realize that the beatings were done to teach me not to do stupid shit. All the resentment and anger I felt towards my mom went away, as soon as I stepped into the real world, and understood what she was trying to tell me. And when it comes to the law, it’s very general in most states. They don’t have to right to tell you how to discipline your child, but if they step in and find solid evidence of abuse and neglect? Well, its time for some corporate punishment for your ass.
And yeah. Its a bitch ass move to report this incident now, instead of when it happened. Trying to pour salt on a open wound and get attention.
A child often disrespects you before you even disrespect him. Respect is earned not given. This applies to kids as well. A child must earn the trust and respect of a parent, just like a parent should earn the respect of a child.
by disciplining your child you aren’t disrespecting him.
making that generalization leads to the assumption that by hitting your kid you aren’t respecting him, and thus its your fault the kid doesn’t respect you. Therfore you have failed as a parent.
which isn’t true because this statement makes it very black and white, which again, it isn’t.
A child isn’t born with the knowledge of what respect is, he has to learn what it is
A child is a person, but he isn’t an adult. You can’t treat him as such because a child doesn’t know how to respond to that sort of behavior. He sees it as a way to push the boundaries, because that is what kids do. Push the boundaries.
Your bad experience with discipline don’t reflect every bodies. If my dad and mom had simply just “talked to me”, I would have shitted on them from the get go. I know it and he knows it. I would have been a moron who thinks he knows what life is, with no real understanding of what the real world is, or manufacturing illicit things.
I however can’t make the same statement as well, however that isn’t what I’m saying. There is a time and place for everything. simply calling bullshit on discipline because you see it as abuse due to some morals doesn’t make it so.
Discipline is to complicated of a subject with to many isolated cases to come up with a conclusion like, “its bullshit needs to go, etc”
Are you going to get them riddlin for their ADHD and IED or maybe adderall for their restless leg syndrome or whatever other made up bullshit non existent issue people make up for bad kid’s with bad parents?
Tell them they are special and frame their participation award?
This mindset is fucking pathetic.
Children like animals need to be trained.
You look at the worlds best animal trainers they use discouragement measures that could be considered painful if used on a human.
Children are not fully functional human beings bro and thinking otherwise your living in fantasy land.
I wouldn’t say it was irrational, but i wouldn’t say the level of it was justified either. She deserved punishment and I’m not against smackin your kid for bein a dip shit, but I’d say he went over board to. It’s not very lulz either…
Unless you’re a real stupid kid your parents should be able to put the fear of god into you without beating the fuck out of you. I think I got spanked once in my life and I knew what the fuck was up after that. I had just got in shit and my dad came at me so I took off down the hall towards my room. It was like a bad dream this 250 lb mother fucker was right behind me no matter how fast I ran. I made it to my door when suddenly I was lifted 3 feet in the air by an open palm making contact with my ass and within a split second I was sittin on my bed wondering what the fuck just happened and I turned around and the door was already closed. I guess my dad was just a ninja, plus he had bats everywhere which he never threatened me with but I was scared shitless of.
If your kid is as dense as some of the people in this thread yeah he probably needs an ass whooping even though it won’t help. Life isn’t some 90s sitcom where you can have a heart to heart without your kid and they won’t ever do that shit again. This isn’t full house or family matters god damnit. Kids are dumb as shit.
Despite all that this video was excessive not too mention fucking creepy. I never wanna hear my mom yell “bend over like a 16 year old girl and take it” but I guess I’m in a different boat.
No form of violence is really needed to discipline kids. All you got to have is a way with words. My dad can be a real asshole with his sarcastic remarks, but it gets the message across to my brother.
16 and she got dat ass…I’d like to see her now. And yeah, that beating wasn’t shit. Mom sounds kinda kinky, though: turn around, bend over and take it like a grown woman…wow.