Not really, he fixed it to his needs. Like odin did.
Sorry queen, i don’t swing that way
Raz0r mad and triggered as fuck that almost everyone is saying yes, I mean the fact that he made this thread+his posts in the relationship thread the last 2 pages proves he was thinking:
“these guys are crazy! you can’t openly trust your significant other that blindly, I’ll go make a thread and when everyone agrees with me that’ll show everyone in the relationship thread how wrong they were and I’ll finally look cool and heterosexual”.
What?
My thinking was, “I wonder how many SRKers feel this way.”
But you’re free to assume what you want when you read SRK sitting on the curb and your feet dangling off.
If she has no legitimate reason, and we are official, then I find that as a trust issue and therefore question the relationship. That’s the cut and dry explanation. I guess it all depends on the situation and the reasoning behind it too. Like if she wanted to check out pictures I have, then I will have no problem have her look at all my motorcycle/guitar stuff. But if it’s anything in regards to being unfaithful or something in that ball park, then yeah, we’d have some talking to do. I know some of my buddies have women in their lives that act like a fucking parole officer and has to check up on them and go through their shit. That wouldn’t fly with me, if the girl I’m with is at that level, that’s going to end.
Like i said in the relationship thread if you care about a smartphone enough to rage when your partner looks through it YOU HAVE A PROBLEM
I just dont see the logic in her going thru my shit…what she looking for? Is it a trust issue? Then lets address that…either she believes im all in or she doesn’t
I couldn’t care less. Aside from my wife, the only people I interact with are my team from work, so all she will see is either a bunch of “adult” men acting like 12 year-olds, or sys. admin stuff that that would bore her to death.
Its a S/O not a random bitch you like and been with for a while. I guess its how you deem a S/O.
Personally if she asks ill let her look but I aint going out of my way to hand it to her. Infact if it was even a possible point of contention I would have a backup phone for drug dealers, side bitches, prostitutes escorts, whatever. Remember though as soon as you get to that comfort zone where you have no more secrets from your woman, thats the point shes taking multiple dicks when shes outta your sight. Keep that leash tight damnit.
haha… the very idea of actually trusting other people… 
ohhhh that’s a good one.
I wouldn’t care, but I would question why she thinks she should be able to go through the phone and what would it really prove.
Hopefully I would have choosen correctly and I get a response that is acceptable and intelligent.
I mean she could, but I’d be pretty pissed. If I’m just on my phone and she wanted to peek at what I’m doing that’s cool. And if she sees a message from someone and she’s like “Oh who’s that” I’d tell her. But there is enough trust where I don’t have to keep an eye on her contacts cause she ain’t hitting them up for sex and vice versa.
It’s nothing wrong with it, it’s just the principle of the matter. Y’all are some vagina whipped losers if you let someone demand your phone. If a girl is like “let me see your phone” on some tsa shit, then we are over imo.
But if I’m texting someone or on the phone then I’m not going to conceal it. If I can’t trust you or you can’t trust me, ain’t no need to proceed with a damn thing. Straight up.
If we’re married, sure, otherwise I don’t see the point. If your GF feels the need to dig through your phone because she’s suspicious about something, that’s on her for not trusting you. Why feed into her insecurities?
So now I guess the question has been rephrased to something entirely different?
Your S/O going through your phone on suspicion of behavior detrimental to the relationship is entirely different from your S/O asking to use your phone for use of a phone call or text and them seeing something you didn’t want them to see otherwise. And by that I mean they didn’t look for dirt, you didn’t hide it.
I think you said it best. Intentions matter in this case. There are some serious issues you have to talk about as a couple if one of you feels the need to go through personal belongings for assurance of some sort.
Communication is always key…
Fuck no. I don’t want any bitches accidentally deleting my high scores.
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By high scores I may or may not mean expensive prostitutes.
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I don’t.
The question in this thread is pretty goddamn clear.
Naw there is no reason for her to need to go through my phone, much like she don’t need to rifle through my wallet. I dont go through her purse and phone and similar shit.
What if you ask for some gum, and she’s in the kitchen and yells in that there is gum in her purse?
Would you go in?
Yea sure, she has what I want and told me where to find it.