What's the nicest way to ask a woman if she is transgender?

I’m thinking that it shouldn’t be too difficult if she hides what would be a woman’s better features.

Does she look like girls you see playing in video game tournaments?

Better make sure before it’s too late…

Serious answer. Look at his/her hands. A guy has a longer ring finger than his index. Girls have the opposite.

So the OP is interested in soliciting someone who specialises in making guys “her bitch” to put it crudely, and they’re concerned about what’s between their legs? Oooook.

I really, really wish that there wasn’t such a stigma around getting involved with people who’s equipment doesn’t match their expressed gender; if that was the case, the OP wouldn’t have to insist on drawing the line at a woman maybe having an intact penis when exploring a submissive sexual role that doesn’t even have to involve penetration, and topics like this wouldn’t have to exist.

I’ve been in Shanghai, and staying away from this thread.

I’m pretty sure it has a penis.

hey , you sorta look like an indian friend I knew…your name isnt Transjinder is it?