Problem is, its not cut or dry, and you make valid points, but Ill give you some insight since I been here a little longer.
And since your new, you might not be aware. But this forum is a great place to do business, alot of niche items, at normally very good prices can be found here. Most of the people I buy from or sell to, are great. Also I sell stuff occasionally, and everyone is really cool with me.
The proverbial timewaster I am referring to is simple, They ask me 100 questions on sticks, I sit down and explain everything, with like 15 minutes of my time x 500 of them, and they do the same thing to every single joystick maker, etc. That is a waste of all of our times. And is uncalled for. If your interested in my sticks, then you do business with me. I normally go out of my way to help people regardless if they are paying or not, but when I see them spamming every builders thread, they are out of here.
Also low balling is fine, its business, I do it myself, haggling is fun, the problem and what I am referring to, is someone who isn’t buying anything, goes on your thread, and says X is to high, to low, etc. I mean if its a deliberate rip off, I can understand, IE 100% price increase, or seller is misleading something but if your not buying something, and dude is making 5 bucks more than normal, wtf are you bugging him etc? GTFO.
And think of this, theres what 20 custom joystick makers max, that are active here. Now look at the amount of people you see in SRK, imagine how many contact me sometimes, now I love talking to people, but deliberate time wasting is a no no. Especially since everyone loves the excuse I am interested in X item, etc.
So I can relate to people. I seen alot of times here, someone says, yo hold that for me. And the buyer backs out. I can understand both sides too. For example, I wanted some games from Macinsot, but I had to ask him what he had, and budget accordingly. I did not have enough to cover everything, so I occasionally pm him asking him if he has anything and try to see if I can cover it. I can see how thats a time waster, but I also did let him know upfront, that was what I was doing and that I didn’t have money in hand. Since sometimes you only have X amount of disposable income per week. Especially now in these economic times.
Man I should be an AIG executive ;), I could use a government bonus right now