perhaps its your mentality of the way you’re appoaching fighting games in general.
keep in mind fighting games are in essence…strategy games in real time, and that instict must be coincided with a pre-plan strategy.
here are some tips.
1]understand your character. is your character of choice excellent at offense, or defense? speed, or strength? air attacks, or low attacks? grabs/throws, or jabs? understand your chracter,… n stress and focus their advantages over the other characters in said game.
2]know your character of choice’s strengths or weaknesses against every other character in the game.
the only way to truly know this…is to repeatedly play against every character in the game{put the difficulty at a high level against CPU—best n fastest way to find out} OR to read up alot on your favorite character’s FAQ at some fighting game forums like srk or dustloop.
3]keep it simple. like Bruce Lee once said–a true master of a martial art doesnt master EVERY single move, he/she masters a few combos or strategies that best works for them personally, and relies on them.–but i tell you, don’t get predictable!, that’s the WORST thing you could ever do in a fighting game. mix it up.
4]stay calm and cautious. DON’T take any unnecessary risks! even if the match seems one sided in your favor, don’t try to show off or get flashy…it’s gonna eventually lead to your doom!
This means–
don’t rely on super combos or ultimates. stick with the basics. simple punches n kicks will get the job done. yes, i know that sups and ulties take large portions off the health meter…but they are risky. just stay patient. slow n steady wins the race.
block rather than parry or some specific defense for that said game, especially if you are a novice. parries n just defends can be flashy…but are still a risk.
5] fight YOUR fight and not your opponent’s. i cannot stress this any more emphatically. don’t let your opponent alter too much your own personal play style. —you always have to adapt to your opponent’s play style somewhat…but don’t ever digress from your own, or else, you’ll find your opponent dominating and dictating the fight. big no no.
lastly, the practice mode is your best friend. stay patient, n stick to it. even if it gets boring sometimes.
good luck, n welcome to the best game genre of all, the fighting genre.