If you can get a girl’s number as quick as possible and separate yourself from that website that is key to going out

Also key is a girl willingly entering into a conversation

Asian girls and white girls give it out so easy

Of course the girl has to be attracted to you. Justin Wong’s down syndrome looking ass won’t pull somebody like Paula Patton.

But do make yourself presentable.

I didn’t start being handsome until this year, but i still got laid

Chick I talk to/fuck currently gets SUPER jealous of ANY kind of contact/interaction I have with girls when I’ve told her at least twice that I’m not ready to hop into a new relationship yet -_-

A lot of times, a chick will say she’s ok with that if you say that you want something casual or don’t want to get into a relationship right now, but 9/10 if you guys are fucking, she wants something more and/or thinks she has dominion over you in some way. She’s giving in hoping you’ll see her way and she obviously views all these other females as competition for your attention.

He is a weak dude though and possibly still lazy as fuck and most likely a loser

I’m on all three, as well as Bumble, and still can’t get replies let alone dates.

You are an aussie

Go to a pub

DON’T try to have a CONVO on tinder or ANY dating site. make just ENOUGH convo for like 20 mins then ask to MEET UP. if she HITS you with “maybe if we get to know each other better…” DELETE/UNMATCH and move on, shes not interested and YOU DONT HAVE TIME for that bullshit. You get to know each other ON THE DATE not over text messages

Also, if you get a match and send them a message, do not send another one if they haven’t replied to your first message. Delete/unmatch within 24 hours of no response and keep it moving. Fuck begging for a woman’s attention.

All common sense shit, tbh.

Women simply don’t reply, or they’re a bot, which then triggers other profiles to start sending you identical messages. Hell of a lot of women checking out my profile, who I know for a fact are genuine profiles, but nope, they never reply.

Sounds like you need to change your profiles up. Newer and better pictures first of all, and you might as well redo any text you’ve got too. And make sure you do have text, and that it is reasonably well written. Doesn’t have to be strictly about you either, can throw in a short anecdote or whatever to give them a sense of your personality.

Also, doesn’t hurt to look at a few of the profiles of girls you think you might be into, see what they list as likes that you like in common, and then make sure you also list those on your own profile. Odds are if they like them enough to list them, other women similar to them like those things too. People aren’t really unique snowflakes for the most part. Similar interests are a huge positive flag, especially when you look like you reasonably have your shit together. To quote a movie:

“I agreed that what really matters is what you like, not what you are like… Books, records, films – these things matter. Call me shallow but it’s the fuckin’ truth, and by this measure I was having one of the best dates of my life.”

I had the same issue a while ago. And I just told the girl i was firm on how I was feeling and things ended up working out. We’re still cool, we slept together a few more times and she told me she couldnt do it without catching feelings and just wanted to be friends and that was just fine. Just be firm with what you want.

EX-GF looked at my entire Instagram story:

Telling a chick that you’re fucking you DONT want a relationship has the opposite affect. Makes them want you that much more until they feel its a lost cause then they move on

(Which is how all fuckships end)

Even telling girls you don’t like them like that has the opposite effect. I guess it hits their ego because you “should” like them.

You put the same story you told us on Instagram? Oh boy…

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Lazy, unmotivated chubby chaser with no drive or initiative and he is too good for target despite not having a degree or doing shit

And pining for his ex

Dude is a fucking bitch

By the WTF tag I got from ol boy I’m gonna take that as a yes to my question.

Hey guys 2003 lurker but had account deleted.

So… I got this girl’s number at a house party on Saturday, talked to her Sunday and monday and she invited me out to meet her and a few friends Monday night, I was busy that day and couldn’t make it out.

It’s all good, we were still talking and stuff over the phone. Only been a week and Saturday night comes up and she tells me she’s going to a concert, didn’t invite me, I know about the concert cause my friends are going. I told her she’d probably see my friends there but not me, I was feeling lazy and didn’t feel like going.

So that night my friends got me a little drunk and I agreed to go. I didn’t tell the girl I was going cause I wanted to suprise her. Well surprise she was there with another guy and some of her friends, now I knew it was a first date thing for them cause they looked awkward with each other. she came and talked to me and stuff, I was polite, and stuff, I had my own crew there and plenty of female friends to dance with so I didn’t bother her on her date.

So the question is should I call her and see what’s up with that guy, or should I just walk away. She was hot, and we hit it off when we first met, and I guess it figures a hot girl can replace me just like that.

I know I should probably just walk away, but I think my head is still caught in the good vibes we were having when we were talking to each other.

I did that cause you stupidly thought that I posted a screenshot of what i said on here on something that is Snapchat-lite.