The Relationship/Dating Thread: We will argue over your issue like we're your parents...even yell

The_Killah29 · 2012-03-21T09:30:57.000Z

^ Nice plan, but I doubt you will find a lot of girls with z-cups.

ZeonTheUnborn · 2012-03-21T09:34:32.000Z

^ Nice plan, but I doubt you will find a lot of girls with z-cups.

I swear to it I will! I don’t care if her face looks like someone beat the swamp thing in the face with a shovel, I shall find it!

RebeccaOnline · 2012-03-21T10:18:58.000Z

It’s alright since the people here are really friendly, especially when you speak french. They get a bit rowdy and riot about hockey games, go on college strikes even though they have the lowest tuition in the country, like to hate on the rest of canada and the really old school quebecers(really uncommon) sometimes look down on english speakers, but they’re lovely people in general

Well that’s good to know. Thanks for all the advice. I’ll try to speak as little English as possible :x

Nini_Heart · 2012-03-21T10:28:40.000Z

Make sure you come to MTL if you ever visit this part of Canada, we have the best venue ever for FGs and the chillest community.

The_Killah29 · 2012-03-21T10:55:24.000Z

I know I’m gonna sound stupid asking this since I’m Canadian but, what/where is MLT? LOL

Nini_Heart · 2012-03-21T11:07:27.000Z

Montreal. It’s like the best city in Canada. Only place with legal strippers and 18 drinking age

The_Killah29 · 2012-03-21T11:13:06.000Z

Montreal. It’s like the best city in Canada. Only place with legal strippers and 18 drinking age

Damn I need to travel more. I live just outside of a small town in Ontario named Dunnville (where Nathan Horton was raised) and that’s about 45 mins from Niagra Falls. But the farthest I’ve ever been away from home is Toronto. And only like 3 times. No vacations in my soon-to-be 20 years. Ever. ._.

BossDawg · 2012-03-21T21:01:36.000Z

F.Y.I. most women dont like to be fingered

Most escorts/hookers don’t like to be fingered but I have never meet a woman at the club/bar wherever that was like "get those fingers out of me!"
This must be some new school foreplay.

FaceMeAndBeBroken · 2012-03-23T03:27:46.000Z

The baby is DEFINITELY not mine.

Seen it in person today. Me, the mother, and a girl thats staying with the mother all agree. I mean there wer 3 races involved, and the woman being white, the baby look fully like the other mans race. I mean, not even like the mom. She fully admitted thats what she thought. The other, who I never met before also was like “Oh man, you’re good, he is definitely not yours dude”.

So I;m like “Wow. From what I see, I know thats not mine. The offer is on the table for the test, but you know how thats going to come out.” I’m not on some Dbag 'not trying to claim my kid; shit, but this was soooo totally obvious, and her words after that spoke volumes.hislkl

Something like “Its good, I dont dont really want the dad in there anyways, (the other) dont have a job, and is an alky(drinks), so I’ll do this by myself. I’m gonna make him pay up if I need it though.” Which is just her being salty, because if I was the father, that wasn’t the case.

I’m like thats whats good. “Thats how you should do it, I think I seen enough, call me (as if) later.”

So pretty much got this taken care of.

0-2. Might be luck, but I may need to check out some shit.

Edit: I also found out that she let her chosen godmother name the kid, a ghetto black woman. Girl sounded like SHE had problems saying half the name.

The_Killah29 · 2012-03-23T04:01:54.000Z

0-2. Might be luck, but I may need to check out some shit.

Hope you ain’t shooting blanks, bro.

Sephiroth73003 · 2012-03-23T04:35:19.000Z

This is just a silly conversation. Confidence helps you with work( if you are content with yourself and driven to better yourself you probably make more money), confidence can help with your looks(if you’ve worked out and improved yourself, maybe you’re bigger, stronger, more well groomed than another man…), confidence helps you TALK to these women (women like to talk, most women, this is just common knowledge. If you’re a confident person who is able to hold a conversation with a woman because you’re not some sad sack who thinks she’s too good for you it certainly helps). There’s many more ways having confidence and being a content person in your own damn shows helps you in your life. 9 times out of 10 the average woman will go for a guy with good things going for him.

Why the fuck do you think boring, plain ass guys are always whining about how chicks are with assholes? Those assholes are more fun to be around. I really don’t see why you’re arguing with me here. Are you trying to say people should just scrape by and not try to improve themselves and their quality of life, and just wait for some less than stellar girl to settle for them? Where are these girls who want some mopey dickweed? Maybe you live somewhere magical where certain traits don’t make someone a more appealing mate, and women don’t almost always have the pick of the litter when it comes to guys, but I live in the real world.

Quoting for emphasis. This. This. This. This. This.

Naslectronical · 2012-03-23T06:03:39.000Z

This is just a silly conversation. Confidence helps you with work( if you are content with yourself and driven to better yourself you probably make more money), confidence can help with your looks(if you’ve worked out and improved yourself, maybe you’re bigger, stronger, more well groomed than another man…), confidence helps you TALK to these women (women like to talk, most women, this is just common knowledge. If you’re a confident person who is able to hold a conversation with a woman because you’re not some sad sack who thinks she’s too good for you it certainly helps). There’s many more ways having confidence and being a content person in your own damn shows helps you in your life. 9 times out of 10 the average woman will go for a guy with good things going for him.

We really don’t disagree here. The only place where it seems we do is that you seem to think that confidence makes you more attractive whereas I just think that it increases the number of opportunities that you have because someone who is more confident is more likely to get out there and meet more people.

Why the fuck do you think boring, plain ass guys are always whining about how chicks are with assholes?

I don’t. What others decide to do is their business shrug

Those assholes are more fun to be around.

Depends on the girl.

I really don’t see why you’re arguing with me here. Are you trying to say people should just scrape by and not try to improve themselves and their quality of life, and just wait for some less than stellar girl to settle for them?

No. Now you’re just putting words into my mouth.

Where are these girls who want some mopey dickweed?

I don’t know. I’m not a mopey dickweed. Perhaps you should ask the goths and emos. Those guys always seem to have girlfriends.

Maybe you live somewhere magical where certain traits don’t make someone a more appealing mate, and women don’t almost always have the pick of the litter when it comes to guys, but I live in the real world.

I live in a world where different people are attracted to different things and where you have to play the hand that you’re dealt. Some guys will simply never be the smooth operator who can undress women with the sound of his voice while some girls will simply never be the prototypical hot chick that makes guys’ eyes pop out of their heads and tongues roll out onto the floor while they hit themselves in the head with a hammer.

Just because a guy isn’t a beacon of confidence doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have good qualities which will be attractive to women, and just because a guy is confident doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have bad qualities that will turn women off. Like I said before, I’m a pretty good example of this. I’m not a hermit who spends his life in doldrums, but I also wouldn’t strike anyone as someone who goes around glowing with confidence and I’m certainly not a smooth operator; however, there are still many women out there who will find me attractive. So instead of trying to groom myself and micromanage everything so that I fit the standards of what this thread or society or the media says I have to do to be attractive to women, I go out there as I am and meet as many as I can and I find the ones who are into me.

GeneralD · 2012-03-23T09:36:43.000Z

Confidence is attractiveness unless you are the type that is into bumbling and awkward anime characters the use nose bleeds as sentence punctuation.

The funny thing is that a lot of people take situations to that extreme in their head when they don’t seem to understand that like those types of shows life is just one big comedy and should not be taken so fucking seriously.

Sephiroth73003 · 2012-03-23T12:33:30.000Z

First time hitting on a chick in awhile. Pretty much went dry after getting really busy last year and breaking up with a girl because I just didn’t have the time for a relationship.

Today didn’t start out so good, but still got the number.
Me: "Hey what’s going on?"
Her: "Just brooding as this is the first weekend since I got dumped by my ex."
Me: "Fuck, know how that feels. Got promised a job at graduation but the offer got revoked yesterday, feels like my boss broke up with me."
Her: "You gay?"
Me: “… uh. … no …”

Reveal · 2012-03-23T13:20:45.000Z

I’ve always had good qualities. It never amounted to much as far as women were concerned until I started gaining confidence in myself, though. That’s when shit clicked and I started seeing a lot more success with girls.

Having confidence does more than just give some guy “an edge” with the ladies, as Lunaid has already explained.

akumatrunigga · 2012-03-23T14:48:20.000Z

I notice niggas arguing bullshit again. Trial and Error nothing more. It is fucking obvious you need confidence. Why even discuss this

gunners · 2012-03-23T18:34:41.000Z

You don’t need confidence but it helps. At the end of the day confidence is a personal thing. I’ve spoken to a lot of people who I assumed oozed with self-confidence only to find out that they attend self-confidence classes, that they were worried that a lack of confidence would inhibit their future goals and what not. I spoke to my Dad who I assumed had no problems giving public speeches and what not, turns out he was just as nervous as anyone else. One of my closest friends finds it difficult speaking to women it doesn’t stop him flirting with every girl within arm range.

What matters most are people’s actions. Individuals in this thread are wrongfully assuming that a lack of confidence automatically translates into negative traits such as being socially inept, a doormat etc.

Havatchu · 2012-03-23T18:45:34.000Z

Yeah. Hiragana, Katakana, and Kanji.

Hiragana is the one most used, which I’ll be trying to learn.

I’d like to learn and master Japanese speech and calligraphy.

http://images.cheezburger.com/completestore/2011/2/5/813a2e51-6824-40f4-a382-8bd8ceca9c61.jpg

Kidding, I think anyone involved in game/nerd culture long enough has wanted to learn Japanese for like, a week or two.

Chinese interests me more for some reason. Specifically Cantonese, because it’s just oh so much cooler than Mandarin. Cue hipster

Cuz · 2012-03-23T21:22:39.000Z

They use a lot of uncommon words and expressions(as in really old words) and the slang is really out there. On top of that, real quebecers have a really thick accent. It’s not so bad that you can’t communicate but even I, a native french speaker had some issues here. Even now(i’ve been here for a year mind you), when I go out of Montreal in the less urban parts of a quebec, I don’t always understand what they’re saying unless they repeat once or twice.

I remember this one time after one of my first nights clubbing, this quebec girl told me “tu ferais un bon chum en criss”. Since they also use a lot of anglicisms like “c’est fucking bon” and generally sound angry, I thought she was calling me a chump or something since I had just cooked her breakfast, so I just left real quick with my head held low and a super bruised self esteem. 2 months later, I learned that chum is quebec french for boyfriend lol

Hey I live in the 514 too.

Also if you’re anglo and you try to speak french, girls will fall all over you here. Shit I am french, but Acadien french which is… unique in it’s ways, and I get dates purely on that I’m pretty sure.

Nini_Heart · 2012-03-23T21:31:30.000Z

Hey I live in the 514 too.

Also if you’re anglo and you try to speak french, girls will fall all over you here. Shit I am french, but Acadien french which is… unique in it’s ways, and I get dates purely on that I’m pretty sure.

Yeah, french accents other than plain old QC accent get you pretty far with local girls. Also you might be the first fellow MTLer I seen on this site(out of the MTL thread), good to know we’re not an extinct breed