[LEFT]It’s not **me **being clingy, it’s both of us being stuck to eachother to point that we can’t help it. [/LEFT]
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[LEFT]I do wear my heart on my sleeve, completely, every single day, there’s no other way to live in my opinion, give your all or give nothing at all. [/LEFT]
I agree with Neesa on this one. You should stay away from the club scene. If you are looking for a good woman, then the club scene will not be the place to find one. As far as an icebreaker goes concerning the female on the bus, just strike up a conversation with her. Don’t go all creepy or anything, but speak to her on some “hello how are you” tip and go from there.
I got a question.
Hanging out at a cafe shop doing whatever, a random chic sits next to me, which I found odd. Only reason I found it “odd” was because the row had nothing but empty chairs across the bar I was sitting at (well, not a “bar” per-say, but it looks like one. They don’t server alcohol). She didn’t say nothing for a couple of minutes, but then all of a sudden she tried to strike conversation with me.
We talked for a bit, didn’t exchange any info, it was a nice chat.
Next day, I come in around the same time, she’s there again, does the same move, and tries to speak with me.
This time the conversation ends short this time around like if I had said something wrong. Actually, it felt more like I didn’t say enough.
Never encounter something like this before, a complete stranger coming up to me and just talking to me like this.
She was cute, and I wouldn’t have mind asking her out or anything, but I’m so fuckin’ socially awkward, I’m sure I fucked up somewhere. Usually when I’m down town and drunk, I can deal with this situation no problem, but being sober and in a relaxing time during mid-afteroon, seeing as how I was actually coherent, I didn’t know what to do or say.
Tips?
This is a fairly common case of “she’s interested in you till you open your mouth”
Neesa
3205
[LEFT][/LEFT]
God, that’s worse. I did that and got bored. Hell, shit happened with Kooper and I. Still, pumping the brakes would be the best. You take things slow for a reason. Not cause it just sounds good. You don’t wanna get overly burnt out too quickly at the beginning and fizzles.
I certainly thought about that a little bit when this was getting reved up, sure. I just don’t see burning out happening, we’re too interested in everything about eachother to really, well, stop moving so fast. After two weeks we decided that we just had to meet eachother soon, and talked living together projections and whatnot, she likes it fast, I like it fast, why put brakes on something going so well? Is what I don’t get.
In response to Pozer and a general attitude that seems to be prevalent among guys(me included) when they’re trying to run game on a girl: don’t let her think that she’s the prize. Girls also have confidence issues, they’re not all these magical beings who know they can get any man, so don’t treat them as such
@Pozer: You think you fucked up but did you consider that maybe she ran out of things to talk about and just cut the convo short in order to not look shallow/bland/uninteresting in your eyes? This is some hella cliché advice but just be yourself and don’t try too hard. Just don’t overthink and do your thing, and always be positive.
Because you’re just asking for something like this to happen if you don’t.
Why are only the negatives being looked at? :bluu:
Neesa
3211
Because you’re so obsessed with the positives. You gotta understand how shit can go wrong with long distance relationships and being so heavily invested 2 weeks in is kinda worrisome (has it really only been 2 weeks? I just caught that in the last couple of post).
Yuckie.
I could never be a cynical person, not any time soon I don’t think, the thought of acting like that kinda disgusts me 
I’m not only looking at the positives, at all, I’ve looked over the negatives that could happen and do all the time and even discuss them with her, I do understand how shit can go wrong in a long distance relationship, I was with an SRK member for nearly two years, moved in with him this Feb, it was the last month of our relationship before I broke it off, it went horribly wrong in the last three weeks of it, I know that bad shit can happen, I’ve done it before. That’s not an excuse to not give people your all and your Sunday’s Best at all times.
It’s been about a month and a week or so, not two weeks.
Neesa
3214
Maybe it’s not really cynical (though, I can be), but, more realistic. But hey, you’re a big boy. Do what you like. You’re gonna do it regardless of what anyone says or does anyway. So, do our opinions really matter in the end?
Interesting, I actually didn’t think of it like that.
Speaking of which, I tend to over think a lot of things. So yeah, lol.
I see, I see.
Thanks for the info! 
Call it investigation and study of people, yes, they do matter, it gives me more insight into the thoughts and persuasions of others that might not share the same mentality as myself. I like arguing and civil debate as well, so, it’s fun for me to post up my gushy goo-goo goodness and see what you guys come up with.
Neesa
3217
You didn’t get consent to study me, bruh. Just sayin’.
K, seriously. I got work at midnight.
Qrazy
3219
Jerk! (j/k)…
How tall are you? all I can imagine is your face sitting on a Batman symbol…
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kaz
3220
For what it’s worth, I’m remotely interested in what happens with your girl. She’s hot from what I saw for an older chick. Good luck to you. I just hope it’s not another Emblem Lord situation. Hit us with the details! It is this weekend right?
