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But would you want that done to you? This goes back to one of my earlier posts…

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Ok soooooo yesterday was my born day and im kinda conflicted. My ex who swore up and down that she would get me something didnt even say happy bday but my first gf ever who i been through thick and thin with and multiple break ups was the first non family member to say happy b day. Shit set the tone for the whole day and up lifted my spirits. Really showed me who has my back and who doesnt.

Im kinda glad my recent ex didnt say anything though or get me a gift. if she had i might have forgiven her for the bullshit. im way too compassionate and forgiving smh. Anyways my friends and family seem to think my first gf is my soulmate and we will def get back together barring we dont fall for other people. we def been through alot and i didnt expect that text from her early in the morning. that one text made my whole day and showed me how much she still means to me though.

thoughts?

btw knowing my recent ex and hoiw immature she is she will prolly come crawling back in a month or so begging forgiveness and prolly offer sex. am i an asshole if i use her for sex? i dont hate her i just accept that she is on a lower level then me mentally and if she is willing to give it up to me in the future im kinda at the point where im like meh…why not?

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I wouldn’t exactly treat another woman like that nor does it really matter as my post was more about the woman’s stupidity not the ethics of the man’s actions. At the end of the day something like that wouldn’t happen to me as I’m not stupid enough to believe the words that come out of a careless promiscuous woman’s mouth.

I wouldn’t say you were an asshole for using her for sex but I would probably label you an idiot when you start catching feelings for her after sleeping with her for a few weeks. The fact that you’re compassionate and forgiving makes sleeping with her a risky business. Maybe it is just me but I assume that Men in general are more susceptible to talk right after bumping uglies.

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i mean its risky as fuck but damn i feel like its owed to me. chick took down her facebook page on my bday then today brought it right back up like come on. thats a clear message to me that says either fuck you OR i just dont wanna deal with ur day right now so imma just ignore it.

shes not a bad person so i know she will come back with the im sorries eventually. i done way too much for her when others that claimed to have her back did nothing for her to shut me out completely. whats on my mind is how will i react when she DOES reach out to me.

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Are these things you have seen with your own eyes or are these things she has told you with regards to people claiming to have her back. Because if you’re relying on the things that she has told you then there’s the good chance that you are that guy who didn’t have her back to the next sap she is complaining too.

Putting whether she is lying or not to the side, you’d do well to forget about her, if she apologises it accept/ignore it and move on. The girl sounds like a trick and you’re showing signs of caring too much which leads me to belief that you’re still susceptible to her charm. At the end of the day if you value someone in your life you make more of an effort, if she only gives a fuck when it is convenient (Relating to her eventually apologising) for her that is a good sign to me that she is not being genuine.

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Wrote a little passage for her and made her cry with this :sweat:

Tribute to my Queen

[details=Spoiler] Where can I even begin on this amazing woman? It’s almost as-though I’m writing about myself all over again, she’s extremely intelligent, very professional, insanely sexy, purely whimsical, childishly mischievousness, ravishingly ridiculous and over-all incredibly loving, nurturing and caring.

When you can easily say that you fell in love with someone you had never spoken to in person before two weeks or so? You know you’ve got a good thing going. The way TheQueenofLove lights up my heart, ignites my lust and makes the cogs in my head tick, with every conversation we have is mystifying and wondrous to say the least, I can sometimes feel as I’m asleep and dreaming when her and I speak to each-other, that’s something of an irreplaceable and irresistible relationship that you can’t help but grasp by the reigns and mush on!

I cannot wait to spend as much time as possible with my love, my sole goal lately has been to do nothing but please her and myself in the best ways, to keep smiles on our faces no matter what situations we run into when we’re apart. We support each other in nearly every aspect of our lives, and if it’s not labeled truly support, it’s at least met with the utmost understanding and appreciation for each other and our souls.

The thoughts of daily morning massages and breakfasts, yoga and fresh juices to start our day off with energy that could make the sun shrink, delights my mind is every way imaginable. Along with my body, considering I’m giving [FONT=inherit]myself a little goal to lick her delectable little kitten every single morning to wake her up with the biggest grin, just to let her know that she’s the first thing on my mind when my eyes open, and to make sure that I’m the first on hers, even when they’re closed <3
[/FONT]Thoughts of going back to school part time with so much energy and love for my learning while having so much inspiration with the one I love really brings a tear to my eye to realize how much understanding and help she would lend to me in a school environment, if even just to give her opinion on certain topics or suggestions on them, I don’t want her to write my papers giggles, just give me another little spark in my head to begin writing ablaze!

Ideas of passionate roleplay in and out of the bedroom, being students of our bodies and learning to enjoy and pleasure every little curve and crevice that I can explore with my fingers, lips and tongue, a steamy and sensually naughty teacher preying on her younger student, a smooth love doctor checking up on his patients well-being, and even hot and steamy lesbian affairs with my little alter-ego Arielle, everything we can think of, we find at least a little bit sexy in thought, maybe not in practice (cuckolding), but we do find time to giggle at the prospects and love indulging in them in our heads.

My dearest Queen of Love, you surely already know this and hold it deep in your heart, but I would love to have the entire world know that I’m in complete and utter love with you, and am wishing for years to come of service and supplement for one-another in the sexiest, smartest, cutest and shortest-cut of ways <3
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Papa, you should meet this woman first. I don’t really believe in thatt type of affection for someone you haven’t even met

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Super cakin. :love:

Can’t help myself, she makes me go nuts.

You can’t get burnt if your heart’s not on your sleeve. Shit.

My Queen’s Tribute to Myself

[details=Spoiler] All you AMAZING, patient and delectible femme bois out there…please know that right now my time is surprisingly caught up in a new relationship that has been totally unexpectedly *blowing my mind *in regards to my concept of compatibility, freedom, fun, and well, pure, unfettered love.

I’m a bit swept away and funneling a lot of my time effortlessly, into this new relationship. I “crush” relatively often…romantic infatuation? Probably every 3 months…okay, maybe every other minute. There have been people with whom I could imagine falling in love…and have experienced sweeping, loving feelings. If you’re on my relationship/fetlife list of lovers…you may very well have felt these experiences and sensations with me.
But falling “in” love where my soul deeply caresses and touches that of another…to the point of feeling our shimmering souls fiercely bond with loyalty, the desire to consistently make each other’s day beam like the brightest star and explore many acres of future possibilities that seem to stretch out endlessly before us? Well, I don’t believe that I’ve experienced that form of love in 14 years. And, to take it a step further…I question whether I’ve [FONT=inherit]ever experienced love so perfect and effortless like this.[/FONT]

This darling dreamboi/girl of a person just hits “dead center” on my rather regally ambitious list of qualities of dream-mate material: enthusiasm and joie de vivre, loyalty, ardor, connectivity, intelligence, kindness, generosity, creativity, sensuality, empathy, dorkiness/zaniness, peacefulnes and voracious sexual appetite. He/she’s neither too kinky nor vanilla…too absent or present…seems to effortlessly shower me with attention and kindness in ways that have only been part of my wildest dreams…and laps up all my sincere praise and compliments…basking and not questioning/shunning a single solitary thing…just totally taking it all in and not doubting or distrusting unnecessarily.
For me to be fully in love…my heart and head have to connect in an explosive “ah ha!”, snap-into-place awareness, that balance where logic and fantasy play in equal parts…creating designs that are both beautiful and make sense- this ties everything I crave and adore together…Again, honestly, this is the first time in well, since I met my longterm partner 14 years ago. It feels exciting, terrifying/daunting (decisions may have to be made), sooooooo loving (there is more identification than any partner I’ve experienced) mystifying (as deep, inexplicable love often is), thrilling, sobering, relaxing, and well you get the picture, most of you have “been there”…falling in love is just sooooooo sweet…and distracting!

Sooooo what does falling in love mean for me, having explored the polyamorous lifestyle and how does it impact upon my other relationships? Am I still polyamorous…(in practice) or no? In the moment and as this progresses, I believe that I’ll be scaling back from the poly lifestyle. There is a much greater desire to fulfill my partner’s needs in the here and now and focus on making our relationship the very, very best and secure it can be. As we’re progressing, it is quite probable that if I choose to break off my longterm relationship (and I do ironically very, very much love my longterm partner) and move in this new direction, that I’ll re-emerge with them in a new relationship paradigm and expression that is all our own and mutually agreed upon. That will never, ever mean that flirting, potential threesomes and fun will be out of the question for either of us…But, it may mean that my partnerships will soon not be as I know them…that they will morph.

There’s still much more exploration to do…contemplation and deciding the scope of this new relationship…but there are simply qualities and shared compatibility here that are too yummy, paramount, and pivatol to pass up. A missed opportunity could mean a missed lifetime of joys and playful experiences of growth, love, and prosperity…or not…maybe 2 years, maybe 5…but hopefully a lifetime.

It honestly tears a bit at me to be drifting and rather inattentive to my other playpartners on here…but the heart simply wants what it wants…and right now, I’m simply crrrrrazy about my AMAZING, OUTRAGEOUSLY HOT, LOVING, SOPHISTICATED, HIGHLY CEREBRAL, CREATIVE and BEAUTIFUL BEYONG BELIEF KING OF LOVE…my deliciously boyishly and rogue-ishly handsome Aaron - my sensual, playful, saucy, Arrielle all in one - channeling Mae West and Marilyn sex appeal with seemingly effortless aplomb. I love you and so enjoyed compiling this tribute to you…which of course, barely scratches the surface to do justice as my experience with you has been incomprehensible in its amazingness!!!
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First meeting is next weekend, not this one, I lost track of what week it was even :lol:

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Also, why the fuck does she refer to you as boy/girl. That shit is pissing me off for some reason

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The little tributes were posted on Fetlife (Fetish Life, Facebook, for kinksters), the idea of dressing me up like a girl and having “lesbian” affairs and going to clubs and what-not is extremely hot and we love it.

Age/Gender play is hot, period. :x

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After numerous bad online relationships, I can attest to that. If you can’t say it to my face, without having to go over the rivers and through the woods, don’t say it at all. Not worth the time and emotional energy.

/jaded as fuck

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I guess no one is going to answer my dating question(s).

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What’s your dating question?

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Hello, I’ve been out of the dating scene for quite some time now. I’m moving to the Seattle area, and really would like to start dating again. However if anyone here has lived in Seattle, how is it for dating. I’ve heard mostly bad things. I’m personally a black male, who usually dates black women. I’ve heard that most people date interracially, like white or asian. Anyway, I know this is a shot in the dark, but I thought I’d ask at least.

Also, I’ve been taking the bus into work daily, and there is this incredibly beautiful women who rides the bus as well. While I’m not usually shy about approaching women, I am shy about approaching women I may see again. It’s just the awkardness in case you are rejected. Since I’m moving to Seattle, is it worth even trying to persue? Or should I just ride this out and pick up the pieces in Seattle? Also, I’m more use to picking up women in clubs. What is a good ice breaker for a “normal” women in “normal” conditions?
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To be honest more emphasis on the second question. The first question is important, but not really since I’ll only be in Seattle for a year (at least that’s the plan)

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@Branh0913: Man I would talk to the chick just to see what would happen, its not like you have to put a lot of stock into it, but it would be good to see what’s up (what do you have to lose?). As far as Seattle goes, i’ve never been, but it seems like you have a more diverse selection to choose from. I think the first step is to familiarize yourself with the area and see who hangs out where and go from there. see what the gamining community is like and do like Anglepalm said and chill at the coffee houses with your tablet or laptop. When it comes down to it, all it is, is the same game plan with a different stage. This just decides if you have a wall stage or not (assuming you play Tekken).

How do you approach females to begin with?

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I’m from Atlanta, of course I play Tekken!

In general when I approach women I’m usually pretty drunk. I act really goofy, and say silly things to them. Some are turned off, but a lot of them will play along. Eventually I can bag them for that night. Most of my interactions with women are short lived, not really lasting more than a month until one of us get bored. But then again, most women I meet come from the club scene, so that short attention span is to be expected.

In general, I’m not a very outspoken guy, and I’m actually pretty quiet. I have a very reserved personality. Generally women who I end up with are women who I worked with, or see on a normal basis who kind of “warm up” to my personality. I’m actually a goofy person deep inside, but I really don’t present myself that way. Anyway, I noticed that the lady sits at the front of the bus. Normally I can’t find a seat so I sit towards the back. I noticed she always “look back” a lot. I sat closer to the front, and she never looked back. So that tells me that she’s probably interested too. Honestly I really need an icebreaker, but it’s really somewhat difficult, since there are very few things I can think to just talk about.

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lol i didn’t watch that vid, but the title has everything i don’t like “natural hair, tall girls and black women”

…just kidding, natural hair is aight

…lol

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@Branh: I’d help more if I knew anything about dating scenes. I feel so out of practice… But, I do think you should work on your confidence and stop using alcohol as a crutch to get women… And definitely stop trying to make the most of out “club chicks”. If you want a relationship, those fly by night bitches ain’t gonna cut it. AP was legit with hitting up coffee shops and whatnot. At least you’ll be able to hear them without yelling 20 decibles higher than normal.

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I know right? Don’t post poems here PR, we don’t want you ending up like the Miss Darkness / Emblemlord saga. It might not be as bad for you if you like that sort of thing, but still…