1441

Couldn’t of said it better myself. I mean, look at why I was banned for 1 week lol

@Brutal-R
You have to take things with a grain of salt as with online dating sites people will usually only tell you what you want to hear and being that you’re a guy and she’s a a chick, she’ll most likely be out for attention from numerous guys. If she ever tries to get you to buy her something or join another site, then my friend you are chatting with a living spammer.

1442

I thank you for your opinions Sao and Torrie De Goddess. These are the same sort of things I did think about. I will be cautious and will let you know what happens. :cool:

1443

:mad:

DEEP DICK THAT BITCH THEN POST PICTURES ON FACEBOOK.

Only way to roll imo.

1444

^^^^ :rofl: Now that IS an idea!!!

1445

Oh damn. It’s been a minute since I came here…

1446

The condom should leave a little space on the tip of my man-stick right? Last night while doing it, I found that the little space was sliding around a lot (i.e. it wasn’t staying on top) Is that usual or does that mean the condom isn’t my size?

The condom was definitely still staying on though.

1447

Yo. Any of yall ever struggle with getting out of the game? Meaning, you get a steady girl, avoid clubs, etc to actually get away from random sex? It’s pretty difficult when you haven’t got any in a while. I’m going on nearly a year with no poon. How do yall stay focused? Fapping isn’t the only answer is it?

1448

pointless post

1449

i think most people get out the game once they find the chick they think is worth it. before that i don’t really see why you’d want to get out the game, so to speak.

1450

Stuckey sighting!!! What’s been up man?

I thought a dude like you might have at least kept one girl around for emergency purposes? I mean, if fappin’ ain’t the answer, it’s probably random sex, or maybe you have a friend for that purpose. It’s gonna be hard not to unless you’re a monk or something…Have you moved out of Macon yet?

1451

What’s up, homes? Still in raggedy ass Macon aka Satan’s shit-stain till February.

I didn’t keep anything for emergencies. My whole problem is wanting to be out of the game. I tried recently, but I ain’t even gonna start talking about that wretched woman…last night I started to take things back up with the bartender, which is why I was asking yall about it. In the end I just went home and got extremely drunk and passed out somewhere lol

1452

Stuckey’s back! you simpin ass nigga how have you been? haven’t seen you post in a long time.

1453

I been aight, cuz. What’s the word?

1454

I’m probably just thinking too hard about the shit. Lol

1455

Golddiggers still all over you for being a baller?..wish I had that problem lol. The dream girl I’ve been talking about still only likes me as a friend and the new chick who gets wet just from me hugging her has a bf. I’d prefer not to be single but it doesn’t bother me much I’m enjoying life and busy with finals.

1456

haven’t been in here for a while, cuz I’ve been doin’ pretty well for myself :smokin:

but obviously me being here lets you guys know somethings giving me trouble right now.

background:
-girl unintentionally plays hard to get (it’s complicated, and would only make sense if I gave the WHOLE story, which is pretty long)
-girl shows good signs
-girl dismisses good signs
-i ignore girl, she comes back (I did this about 8-10 times)
-now, I decide to establish my intentions

I’ll cut to the most important events that’ve occurred in the past few days.

the past 4 days of events

[details=Spoiler]4 days ago:
-finals are over, I ask her out, she says yes and “seems” eager and happy to go out with me, but she might not bc she’s working on her final paper.

3 days ago:
-date postponed cuz she’s still working on her final paper. she asks me if I’m going to so-n-so’s party. I say yea, she says no. 2 hours into the party, she shows up, with her roommate and gay dude friend.
–NOTE: I led on her roommate for 3 months. long story. gay friend hates me.
-they form a human “link” to cock block me, cuz they know Imma try something
-I send an army of wingmen to separate them, and eventually I get to talk to the girl. but the roommate and gay friend pull her away from me. she runs back to me(literally) when we’re outside, but gets pulled away again.
-I text her to ask her out around 4am, she says yea.

2 days ago:
-she texts me late to lemme know she’s done finally, and ready to go out, but she’s tired (only 3 hrs of sleep). she stops texting me and falls asleep.
-I go to a bar w/my apt to celebrate my roommate’s birthday.
-around 10pm, this sequence of texts start (NOTE: I don’t respond to any of these texts cuz I’m out with my friends, don’t know about the texts, and I planned on getting back to her in the morning anyway):
~10pm: she texts me a sad face
~1130pm: she texts me “Hey” (NOTE: she only does this when I don’t text her back, or she thinks I’m ignoring her; this has been proven multiple times in the past)
~Midnight: she texts one of my roommate tellin’ him there’s gonna be a party at her place. my roommate responds lettin’ her know he (and the rest of the apt) can’t go
~2am: she texts me, “Upset?”
~250am: she texts me “I’m sorry dood :confused: I feel really bad right now :frowning: I didn’t mean to fall asleep, I was tired :(”
~4am: another sad face
NOTE: 97% chance there was no party.

Yesterday:
-send out an apology text, no response
-send out another apology text, get a response
-ask her out again, no response

and here I am today. there’s no guarantee I see her today or 2mrw.

[/details]

tl;dr I technically ignored her, and am pretty sure that she’s pissed now, even tho I already apologized.

how do I bounce back?

1457

well I was going to say i understand… except gettin out of the game is hard as fucc cause when I do decide to ‘settle down’ thats when the game comes at me…literally.

my own mom says its a habit amongst the men in our family…we get bored QUICK so its right back in the mix of new women…etc.

it comes down to you ultimately forcing yourself… if u want to settle down… do it. make the amends u need to in order to settle down with a particular chick that you like…

as far as going a year… hell 17 days for me… witout gettin any is a bit much stuck. dont think u can have focus wit that.

1458

apologize… let her know how u felt about everything an her

we fail at simply looking at the actual reason shyt got fucced up. instead of apologizing or explaining the reason behind it we tend to beat around the bush an find some other route to make things better an the midst of that we tend to ASSUME the others 'feeling/attitude/reaction"

call… talk… if u can meet face to face, then better… but TALK–VERBALLY to each other. u can be surprised at what u get an understand.

1459

To be honest I don’t know why you apologised in the first place. Maybe people treat text messages differently elsewhere but if someone responds late to a text message the person should accept that they only just go the chance to respond to it. Actually the timing of the text messages makes it odd that she would be pissed off, at 0250 and 4000 you would either be out or sleeping.

With situations like that I find its best to say what you’ve got to say then leave it at that, the more you try to make up with her, apologise and what not is the more she will feel she has a right to be upset. It also sets a bad precedent for your relationship with her.

1460

Talk to her in person and clear the air. Tell her her friends are cock blockers and that you need a straight answer on whether she likes you or not and that you’re not going to pay attention to her if shit gets any more needlessly complicated then it already has.