The Relationship/Dating Thread: We rough up our significant other and they love it!

[Vy_Low]

If your going to act like a bitch, your going to get treated like a bitch. Like who gets pissed cause someone said you were their ex? did you grow a vagina over night or something?

He probably still had feelings for her at this point because I can’t imagine anyone being upset over being labelled ‘the ex’ if you truly had no issue with the relationship being over.

I broke up with my gf some months back and I could care less if she referred to me as the ‘ex’ becuase I have zero interest in continuing a relationship with her.

Which reminds me…she owes me some money…

[fishjie]

lollerskating

[kaz]

Fishjie, you’re a wild dude.

And your ex got angry? Lol. Why?

[thurst]

lol why would a hooker wear a black wig instead of showing her blond hair? someone should teach her about maximizing her market value.

[fishjie]

kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

[Vy_Low]

during sex i kept reminding her we weren’t back together

Oh dear

I honestly thought I was an asshole.

[JackTenrac]

• my sister dates guys with the same name as me. This latest one has both his name and middle name the same as my middle name and first. Is this normal?

I’m dead serious. This shit creeps me out. I’m scared that she might attempt to start wanting to fuck me next. HELP!

[thurst]

my ex-gf specifically said that we’d never have sex multiple times when we were just “talking” and kinda hooking up so after a month or so when i finally got in that vag i stopped midway and was like “remember when you said we’d never have sex lol”…she didn’t think it was funny.

[Weeks]

my ex-gf specifically said that we’d never have sex multiple times when we were just “talking” and kinda hooking up so after a month or so when i finally got in that vag i stopped midway and was like “remember when you said we’d never have sex lol”…she didn’t think it was funny.

hahah yeah when me and my wife split up then got back together i did something almost exactly the same, and she started getting buck wild and angry trying to push me off. that was some good sex…

[Cryoh]

I’ve gotta try that out now. Kinda wish that I didn’t keep around all of the ex-gfs as fuckbuddies now.

[kaz]

I dunno if I could keep ex’s around for just sex lol. Everytime I break up with one I hoped I never had to see them again, let alone have sex with them. I’ll pass.

Then again I’m kinda curious. Who actually initiates that? You or her?

[Koop]

keepin the ex around and allow sex

hell will occur when YOUR not ready… i advise to remove them…

[Cryoh]

It’s about 50/50. I realize that I am performing the equivalent of juggling gasoline-filled juiceboxes with matchtip-covered gloves, so I should probably start culling the list down a bit.

[orochizoolander]

An interesting read championing what we all already know.

[sambo]

aw shit.

one of my ex’s, one of the two I was sprung/sympin’(sp?)/caught up on, has been hittin’ up one of my closest friend’s lately, my roommate. just about a few hours ago, he hits me up and asks “Aye what if I started going out with insert name here?”

I automatically said no. yea, I’m one of those guys that follows the bro code(where I come from, it just means don’t go out with a friend’s ex. plain and simple). this friend of mine, prior to tonight, also followed it and even preached it from time to time in discussions about girls and relationships. but now he’s contradicting himself.

but, during the whole convo he was essentially asking me over and over again for approval. he wants her, and could probably get her. but I said “Naw” to whatever he said cuz imo it’d be fucked up, and would fuck shit up between me and my friend especially when you consider we’ll be living in the same apartment and the same room for a year and a half.

am I in the wrong for not wanting my friend to go out with my ex?

[thurst]

if she’s your ex then yeah you’re within your rights to not be cool with them going, especially bcuz as you said you’d have to see her ass around the crib and hear this nigga talking about and to her. if your boy really has spoke on the issue before then throw that shit in his face bcuz it’s really kinda foul of him imo…assuming of course that this was in fact your girl at one time.

[sambo]

if she’s your ex then yeah you’re within your rights to not be cool with them going, especially bcuz as you said you’d have to see her ass around the crib and hear this nigga talking about and to her. if your boy really has spoke on the issue before then throw that shit in his face bcuz it’s really kinda foul of him imo…assuming of course that this was in fact your girl at one time.

aite.

and yea, she was my girl at one time. it was a while ago, before I hit this dryspell of mine full of fail. but it wasn’t too long ago for me to not be bothered by it.

I’ll talk to him again cuz he shouldn’t be contradicting himself like this, and see what happens. thanks for the response.

[kaz]

An interesting read championing what we all already know.

I thought this was a pretty interesting read. I think the parts that hit home mainly for me were the sections on social interactions comparing men vs women. But I think more than anything, being a musician myself I related more so towards this passage:

I am a musician, and I?ve long wondered about this difference. We know from the classical music scene that women can play instruments beautifully, superbly, proficiently ? essentially just as well as men. They can and many do. Yet in jazz, where the performer has to be creative while playing, there is a stunning imbalance: hardly any women improvise. Why? The ability is there but perhaps the motivation is less. They don?t feel driven to do it.

        I suppose the stock explanation for any such difference is that women were not encouraged, or were not appreciated, or were discouraged from being creative. But I don?t think this stock explanation fits the facts very well. In the 19th century in America, middle-class girls and women played piano far more than men. Yet all that piano playing failed to result in any creative output. There were no great women composers, no new directions in style of music or how to play, or anything like that. All those female pianists entertained their families and their dinner guests but did not seem motivated to create anything new.

Meanwhile, at about the same time, black men in America created blues and then jazz, both of which changed the way the world experiences music. By any measure, those black men, mostly just emerging from slavery, were far more disadvantaged than the middle-class white women. Even getting their hands on a musical instrument must have been considerably harder. And remember, I?m saying that the creative abilities are probably about equal. But somehow the men were driven to create something new, more than the women.

I’d have to dig deep into that and see what I can find out because it’s shocking how true that seems to be…

aw shit.

one of my ex’s, one of the two I was sprung/sympin’(sp?)/caught up on, has been hittin’ up one of my closest friend’s lately, my roommate. just about a few hours ago, he hits me up and asks “Aye what if I started going out with insert name here?”

I automatically said no. yea, I’m one of those guys that follows the bro code(where I come from, it just means don’t go out with a friend’s ex. plain and simple). this friend of mine, prior to tonight, also followed it and even preached it from time to time in discussions about girls and relationships. but now he’s contradicting himself.

but, during the whole convo he was essentially asking me over and over again for approval. he wants her, and could probably get her. but I said “Naw” to whatever he said cuz imo it’d be fucked up, and would fuck shit up between me and my friend especially when you consider we’ll be living in the same apartment and the same room for a year and a half.

am I in the wrong for not wanting my friend to go out with my ex?

Never break the bro code. Dating a friend’s ex is off limits. If your friend goes behind your back (which it seems like he’s done already) disown him. His behavior is unacceptable.

[LimeGreenPatato]

aw shit.

one of my ex’s, one of the two I was sprung/sympin’(sp?)/caught up on, has been hittin’ up one of my closest friend’s lately, my roommate. just about a few hours ago, he hits me up and asks “Aye what if I started going out with insert name here?”

I automatically said no. yea, I’m one of those guys that follows the bro code(where I come from, it just means don’t go out with a friend’s ex. plain and simple). this friend of mine, prior to tonight, also followed it and even preached it from time to time in discussions about girls and relationships. but now he’s contradicting himself.

but, during the whole convo he was essentially asking me over and over again for approval. he wants her, and could probably get her. but I said “Naw” to whatever he said cuz imo it’d be fucked up, and would fuck shit up between me and my friend especially when you consider we’ll be living in the same apartment and the same room for a year and a half.

am I in the wrong for not wanting my friend to go out with my ex?

depends what your situation is with her i guess. Obivously if you saying wrong, it would be an issue for you…so yeah your in the right by saying that. My last ex, i don’t give a shit about her…any of my friends could date her if they wanted to. I would advise against it cause she’s wacko…but if they want to go ahead.

[gunners]

If the guy is your room mate the thought shouldn’t have crossed his mind. From his point of view I’d automatically assume she is trying to get back at you, I’d also see it as an insult to fuck your ex under the same roof.

I think it is more of a territorial thing though as if you lived in different homes I’d be inclined to say fuck it.