The Relationship/Dating Thread: We rough up our significant other and they love it!

[LimeGreenPatato]

that has to be the longest thread on a fb status i’ve ever seen.

[Lane]

why are people so retarded?

[Spycarnegy]

That link is gdlk Females came out of noooooooowhere catching feelings and shit wooooww… makes me want to do that on my FB lool

[hanzohattori1]

“i deleted him bc he’s ignorant and i’m mad.”

2 min. later

“shit! now i’m mad i deleted him”

LMAO!

[scum_gale_88]

wow that is an epic fb status

[Kayroh]

friend me so i can get up in this bitch

Me too lol

[mxdcomplex]

Girls are fucked in the head. You can be the nicest most caring person in the world to them. but after awhile they will still complain about shit. nothing is ever good enough for them. you could point out a list of the 100 things you do for her and she’ll still find shit that you don’t do or don’t do right, or your only doing tha tbecause of this., or some other bullshit.

True words of wisdom lol!

[Ephidel]

that link man…shit was crazy

[P.Gorath]

my bad, was busy…heres the rest of it…all from that one status…shit is silly. Oh females…so fickle

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i honestly didnt know there was a silent war between black women and puerto ricans over whose pussy is wetter

[Cryoh]

I think that we live in a completely different world than the black and puerto rican women.

I want to try that out on my FB status, but I don’t have any crazy black and puerto rican friends.

[Daddyneptune]

That shit got out of hand super quick.

[thurst]

i like how that thread divulged into black women feeling themselves and talking shit about the other girl that called them out on their nonsense.

[The_Epidemic]

i honestly didnt know there was a silent war between black women and puerto ricans over whose pussy is wetter

lol I honestly didnt either…me and my cousin were mad shocked at how personal they ere getting bringing up aids and sat scores. Especially since 90% of these broads are in nyc. I wonder why the white and asian broads were so quiet though…

@Thurst: it got really funny when that grown black lady started talking and telling people to read books…GTFO. I dont even know who she was…

Edit: My boy instigated this shit last night while i was sleep and its actually still going…wow.

Btw a couple of the broads really did remove us lol.

[orochizoolander]

which is why you just wrote 500 or so words about how you’re making moves on your friend who has a boyfriend, right?

Usually a woman who is taken is completely off my radar no matter how attracted to her I may be however, as I’ve said before in my particular case it’s not that simple. I asked her yesterday if she felt that talking to me the way she has been while having a bf was wrong and she said no because he’s been a shitty bf the past few months (forget her #, being too lazy or busy to talk to her at all, waiting until the last possible moment to tell her he won’t be able to visit knowing that she has been anticipating it for months, etc) and she even told him about me, which I’m guessing made him realize how badly he fucked up. At this point it’s a matter of time before she dumps his ass which probably would have happened sooner if he bothered to answer her calls/texts.

At the end of the conversation yesterday she said “talk to you later love you kiss bye”…umm most of my female friends say that but obviously they mean it in a friendly way but considering this is someone who I’m semi-involved with I asked her online if I heard correctly when she said that and she said “It just kinda slipped out” so I said “ok then you don’t mean it…right?” and she said she’s never been in love with someone so she wouldn’t just say it casually without it not meaning something. So I’m not sure if her possibly loving me or being close to it after knowing me for barely a month is good or bad though common sense dictates that it could be a sign of her being the clingy type, but it’s likely I’m just reading too much into it lol.

She was setup on a blind date by her friend last night and while having no intention of doing anything with him she agreed to it because she told her that he would help her get into art school, so after seeing the guy was 25 (she’s 18) obviously she figured out what the catch was and ditched him feeling “disgusting”

Okay I think I am in the same situation right now. Dated a girl I met at work (she doesn’t work there anymore so it’s not gonna be a problem), but every time we go out I’m totally unsure whether she just treats me as a friend or something else. We even went back and forth from SoCal to Vegas for a whole day yesterday. I’m usually good at figuring out whether a girl likes me or not but not this time. I mean we go out a lot, but our conversations on the phone and text seems stale. Sometimes she doesn’t even reply or stops in the middle of a topic. I don’t know what to make of this because she could be like this with other guys who dated her. I thought that if you ask a girl on a date that automatically means that you like them right? I’ve been planning on telling her straight up that I like her so that she’ll definitely know this time but I’m finding it hard to find the correct timing to do so.

Yeah because asking her how she feels about you so that you know where you stand with her is totally out of the question. Be direct and honest it’s always the best way to go.

lol I honestly didnt either…me and my cousin were mad shocked at how personal they ere getting bringing up aids and sat scores. Especially since 90% of these broads are in nyc. I wonder why the white and asian broads were so quiet though…

@Thurst: it got really funny when that grown black lady started talking and telling people to read books…GTFO. I dont even know who she was…

Edit: My boy instigated this shit last night while i was sleep and its actually still going…wow.

Btw a couple of the broads really did remove us lol.

My stomach can’t take anymore!:lol: Damn they removed you? teh hate is strong with them! Which Reminds me, one of my best friends who happens to be black always complains about how at school, work, wherever he hears an obnoxiously loud woman 9/10 times it’s a black woman.

[LimeGreenPatato]

Usually a woman who is taken is completely off my radar no matter how attracted to her I may be however, as I’ve said before in my particular case it’s not that simple. I asked her yesterday if she felt that talking to me the way she has been while having a bf was wrong and she said no because he’s been a shitty bf the past few months (forget her #, being too lazy or busy to talk to her at all, waiting until the last possible moment to tell her he won’t be able to visit knowing that she has been anticipating it for months, etc) and she even told him about me, which I’m guessing made him realize how badly he fucked up. At this point it’s a matter of time before she dumps his ass which probably would have happened sooner if he bothered to answer her calls/texts.

At the end of the conversation yesterday she said “talk to you later love you kiss bye”…umm most of my female friends say that but obviously they mean it in a friendly way but considering this is someone who I’m semi-involved with I asked her online if I heard correctly when she said that and she said “It just kinda slipped out” so I said “ok then you don’t mean it…right?” and she said she’s never been in love with someone so she wouldn’t just say it casually without it not meaning something. So I’m not sure if her possibly loving me or being close to it after knowing me for barely a month is good or bad though common sense dictates that it could be a sign of her being the clingy type, but it’s likely I’m just reading too much into it lol.

She was setup on a blind date by her friend last night and while having no intention of doing anything with him she agreed to it because she told her that he would help her get into art school, so after seeing the guy was 25 (she’s 18) obviously she figured out what the catch was and ditched him feeling “disgusting”

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dude…seriously, just fuck this girl already. Stop with the did you mean this did you mean that bullshit. I get your young…but grow up

[Kourin-chan]

Usually a woman who is taken is completely off my radar no matter how attracted to her I may be however, as I’ve said before in my particular case it’s not that simple. I asked her yesterday if she felt that talking to me the way she has been while having a bf was wrong and she said no because he’s been a shitty bf the past few months (forget her #, being too lazy or busy to talk to her at all, waiting until the last possible moment to tell her he won’t be able to visit knowing that she has been anticipating it for months, etc) and she even told him about me, which I’m guessing made him realize how badly he fucked up. At this point it’s a matter of time before she dumps his ass which probably would have happened sooner if he bothered to answer her calls/texts.

My question is…is this person worth all this waiting and whatnot?
Her friend set her up on a blind date…so has she broken up with that other guy? There are too many other women out there for you to waste time on this person, especially if she hasn’t even ended her other relationship. This just has drama written all over it; it stresses me out thinking about it.

I just saw that you said she’s 18, OZL. Ugh.

[fishjie]

Yo look how this friendly honest question brings out the worst in females lol.

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Its actualy still going too…im just too lazy to finish screen caping. It basically turns into why black women and spanish girls are better than every other type lol.
Neither me or any dudes are posting anymore…just broads arguing over whos better. They get personal too…

I was just trolling for the most part…but then i fell back bc there way too many broads against me lol.

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

[thurst]

Usually a woman who is taken is completely off my radar no matter how attracted to her I may be however, as I’ve said before in my particular case it’s not that simple. I asked her yesterday if she felt that talking to me the way she has been while having a bf was wrong and she said no because he’s been a shitty bf the past few months (forget her #, being too lazy or busy to talk to her at all, waiting until the last possible moment to tell her he won’t be able to visit knowing that she has been anticipating it for months, etc) and she even told him about me, which I’m guessing made him realize how badly he fucked up. At this point it’s a matter of time before she dumps his ass which probably would have happened sooner if he bothered to answer her calls/texts.

At the end of the conversation yesterday she said “talk to you later love you kiss bye”…umm most of my female friends say that but obviously they mean it in a friendly way but considering this is someone who I’m semi-involved with I asked her online if I heard correctly when she said that and she said “It just kinda slipped out” so I said “ok then you don’t mean it…right?” and she said she’s never been in love with someone so she wouldn’t just say it casually without it not meaning something. So I’m not sure if her possibly loving me or being close to it after knowing me for barely a month is good or bad though common sense dictates that it could be a sign of her being the clingy type, but it’s likely I’m just reading too much into it lol.

She was setup on a blind date by her friend last night and while having no intention of doing anything with him she agreed to it because she told her that he would help her get into art school, so after seeing the guy was 25 (she’s 18) obviously she figured out what the catch was and ditched him feeling “disgusting”

honestly, i’m not particularly interested in the details that make you feel better. you’re just mad full of shit talking about you always do the most morally upright thing even if it’s to my detriment bcuz it’s clear from your posts that that’s not what you do at all. one post you’re talking about bagging some dude’s girl for no other reason than you like her and he’s far away so you can, and then before that you were talking about how you haven’t called your girl in a month or whatever and you’re talking to some other chick, knowing that your original girl still thinks that you’re together primarily bcuz you haven’t told her otherwise.

i’m not knocking you for either one of those things, but you can’t really be serious making statements like this:

My whole philosophy on women and life in general is to always do the right thing and make the most ethical, honest, and humane choices possible consistently even at my expense because that’s harder route to take so IMO being willing to do so is what it means to be a man. So keep that in mind when reading any advice I have.

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[starkilled]

hmm, first time posting in this thread, but I have gone through some shit over the past months. I broke up with my girl when she found out I was cheating on her and the other girl I was with wanted to give us a try even though I didnt tell her about the situation at first. I went to visit her for a week and kick it and we ended up fucking all day and night. sucks because I was her first but now since we started fighting and I get a little crazy when I argue she just doesn’t show any emotion anymore, she says she doesn’t wanna do this anymore, not even be friends, but she claims she loves me still. so the right thing in my mind was to say goodbye too, and give her time she said she wants away from me.
I want to keep pursuing her but if she acts like that, I feel like what’s the point? should I keep trying or just keep it pushing and go on about my life?
I feel so bad, but I guess that’s karma, I dunno.

[axiscore]

I’m a long time reader of this thread. Never thought I’d be posting in it, but I’m in need of srk’s help:

So I started talking to this girl I met in college a few months ago. We had lived in the same dorm all year, but I hadn’t really gotten to know her until recently. Once I introduced myself, we started talking more often. I would go to her room and just hang out with her, talk, etc, but I never took it to anything more than what would be considered a friendship. We even watched a movie together at night in my room, played drinking games together some nights, etc, but no opportunity to make a move presented itself, so I never actually did anything with her. I can only blame my lack of game for why I didn’t create the opportunity, though. I really like this girl now and want to turn this into a relationship.

The problem is that I feel like she might just think of me as a friend right now and I’m not sure what my gameplan should be. Since it’s summer we’re both back home now (I’m up in norcal and her in socal) and I most likely won’t see her again until we’re back in college in a few months. She made it clear that she wanted to keep in touch with me over summer by talking online through gtalk or whatever, but I’m not sure what I should do. I feel like just talking with her and nothing else might just reinforce my status as just a friend. Maybe I should just hold off talking with her this summer and just wait until we’re both back at school so that I can interact with her face to face? I think I messed up by not letting her know how I feel/asking her how she feels about me or asking her out on an actual date. What do I need to do over summer and when I see her again next year in college?

I was thinking that maybe the best option would be to hold off on talking with her now, and then once I see her again back at college, man up and ask her out on a date and let her know how I feel. SRK’s advice?