Keep the “bitches” and “hoes” language out of this thread guys. That’s why the old thread was abandoned.
The Italians have a saying: “A man should love his woman just a little bit more than she loves him.”
Apparently, that’s the ideal. What I believe is that men are instinctively geared towards falling in love with women. And women are instinctively geared towards *making *men fall in love with them. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying women don’t love their men, cuz they do. What I’m saying is that part of *everything *a woman does is just to get the man to love her. From they way they dress, to the way they walk and talk and even when a woman has low self esteem, we’re still attracted to her, aren’t we guys?
Why? Cuz I think it has to do with men’s roles as protectors of their women and children. You can’t be a protector unless you love your family more than you love yourself, to the point that you could give your own life to defend them. Call me crazy, call me nuts, but this is what I realized today.
i hurt some ex’es, and i feel horrible about it. i think its turned me into an alcoholic, but at least im an awesome drinker. i was a good guy for so fucking long, what can i say, i just picked up bad habits on the way, and it got to a point where i didnt know how to differentiate between good and bad anymore, i just did whatever the fuck i wanted at times. i guess you live and you learn, and everything happens for a reason, because it made me a realer person. now, either i fuck with you, or whoa, this is just fun, and thats it. shame though, i still miss my most recent ex, even with all the bullshit i have done in vegas. its my bad though. hard L to take, but you take them, and you learn from them. it is what it is at this point. i just hope she is happy. as a man, i just have to learn to man up, and evolve. its not my position to let my past hold me down, at least not for me it is. it does at times, but we all should fight to not have it be that way.
i made my bed, and ill fucking lay in it. if its messy, i fix it, and make it more relaxing. i guess we are all fucking up just searching for our endless paradise sometimes.
Sometimes it feels like its just better to get used to reigning in hell than trying your best to go for the whole angel route. We can’t all be saints right, sometimes life just doesn’t deal you the right hand, and the doing the RIGHT thing would cause you to lose your life anyway, so fuck it. If I can LIVE with certain things, at least I am alive. Which is more than I can say for some forgotten martyrs…
In the past year, I have met some cool girls and went out with them but I lose interest like almost immediately. I am at the point now where I really have no desire for a relationship and I don’t see this changing anytime soon. It isn’t a shortage of women, let me say that first. There are plenty of girls around me but I just have no desire to pursue anything with them. IMO I just don’t think it is worth it. Is something wrong with me? Obviously I am bit jaded but I see no need to be in a relationship with a girl. Sure sex is awesome but that has nothing to do with relationships. I just don’t see myself ever “needing” a woman and I really don’t know if I even will want one in the future. Just trying to get some advice or a different vantage point.
I said it before and I will say it again. Know thyself. Know what you are about. Sounds like you don’t want women for anything more then sexual gratification. Accept this about yourself and leave it at that. There is nothing wrong with you. It’s who you are. There are 7 billion motherfuckers on this planet. You relaly tjhink you the only nigga that just wants to fuck women and move the hell on? Ah, Kevin…smh YJDK.
And what makes her exceptional? Is she just better in bed than anyone other girl? Does she look better? Or does she compliment you better than other girls would? I guess I’m asking, because you probably need to make sure that you’re feeling aren’t from something superficial. The fact you say “possibly your girlfriend” means that there are some lingering informalities. I think if you’re serious I believe you need to get some things out in the open. There may be some risk involved, but that’s the only way you’re going to take it to the next level. Unless you’re both content with stagnation.
Theres nothing wrong with you. I feel you actually, because I used to be the same exact way. I used to make it my mission to not be in a relationship whatsoever…i just wanted casual sex with various broads. I would lie and say it gets old after a while…but, no it doesn’t. Ever. You will meet a broad one day you will be feeling though. Especially if you’re out there like that. Then the transition is going to start slowly. Instead of loving and leaving them you are going to start seeing her a couple of times a week…then, you’re going to start doing shit together. Next thing you know you’re in a “relationship” well, atleast thats what happened to me anyway. It is hard not going back to that lifestyle though…
One nigh stands are probably the worst sex you can get. Once you have sex with someone you actual like, there really isn’t any going back. Plus women are less likely to do freaky shit during one night stands. I always said this:
“One night stands are like the fast food of sex. It’s just enough to take away the hunger, but not enough to fill you up”
When it comes to sex, I’m one greedy motherfucker. I actually want the a woman to try some freaky stuff. And it’s way way better when you have some sort of connection with who you are sleeping with.
^yea…I disagree completely. Unattached sex is probably the best out there. No feelings, no drama…just a pure physical attraction. It doesn’t get much better than that. As far a one night stand broads not doing shit…lol try again. The kinkiest broads I have met have pretty much ALL been one nighters. But, I dont go too crazy on a one nighter anyway…theres certain shit you just shouldn’t be doing to throw away anyway IMO.
But yea…what she does is entirely up to you…sometimes they will just request some off the wall shit too. Thats the shit that kinda turns me off though. Like I had a broad tell me to pump her mouth once…and i was like, “huh?”
Depends on your definition of freaky. I can get a blow job on a one night stand, but that’s about it. But for me things like blowjobs are like really basic. One nigh stands just feel like work for me. They aren’t enjoyable at all for me. I still have them when I can, just out of necessity, as I haven’t been in a real relationship since 2006. I’ve gone 4 years of nothing but one night stands, with a good amount of frequency from 2006-2008. I’m not even sure how to approach relationships anymore. I will say that majority one night stands are absolutely horrible, as women are at their laziest during them. But maybe I just run into the wrong women. In either case, the freaky stuff I like isn’t safe to try during one night stands. So maybe that’s why I don’t enjoy them, because I don’t really like basic sex. And that’s all you’re going to get with one night stands.
No, I’m not quite that bad. I’m almost that bad, but no scat or watersports for me. I know for a fact, because this Panama/Black chick I was messing with in 2007 wanted me to piss on her. I had to take a pass on that.