The drugs are the real problem. Ya’ll need to admit that to ya’lls self and seek serious help and take your ass to a few meetings or something. Other than that I wouldn’t begin to know what you should do since drugs tends to skew the truth of everything.
So uhh… i posted awhile back that I went out with dinner with an old friend that I had history with and that it went pretty well… good chemistry/body language/talk of meeting up again… I called her/texted her to just say that it was awesome seeing her and that i would like to do it again when shes free. How long should I be waiting for a response?
Koop
5684
Youll be fine… no emotions an such
till u get a ultimatum for all that generosity from ya sugar momma…
See here is the part from the other side that most dont see or get. weve all heard of sugar daddies an such yet many don’t really see how that works. see young girl gets woo’d an such given money to assist in rent/life…etc. In turn…she does what daddy wants. Ill repeat for you. She does what daddy wants. Pussy after she had a long day… yep. clean up daddy house… yep. be on call for daddy yep…
so same works for you as the guy EXCEPT u will get this emotional tie over the chick. now i don’t know the age but its a lot to take into a account… unlike sugar daddies whom ultimately want young pussy when he wants the sugar woman tend to work the ‘young man’ a lil bit more… hope u know ‘handy man’ stuff, car stuff, takin care of the sickly stuff, an fuccin the way SHE wants you too (no longer the imma beat that shyt up mentality)…
have a blast an earn your pair of timbs or ps3 game or incentive’s that mean not much for a limited time.
thurst
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i think there’s a lot to what koop said. i was fucking with a 40 year old broad for a hot second and it wasn’t even serious, but she was always trying to assert her dominance due to the age gap. i’m normally pretty chill and laugh shit off, but i had to check her a few times and remind her who ran shit…if i was living with her and she was running my shit, idk if that would’ve been possible.
well, i don’t think i’ll message her again since i have a little over 10 phone numbers now from different chicks…
so, i really don’t need to try to get her digits since now i have too many digits and i’ll probably be saying no thanks to most of the girls who were kind enough to be responsive to me.
there was this one girl that had a really funny and amazing profile…but no pics.
her written profile was so charming and funny, i became interested in her…so i messaged her asking for her to put up pics.
she said she didn’t want to cuz she thought she always comes out horrible in pics.
i replied back saying as long as she wasn’t hideously ugly, that we would be cool.
but she still refused.
so i said to her,"look, i like u alot, based solely on your personality…you remind me of a petite asian version of woody allen. i don’t really care at this point if u even are hideous or not. hell…even if u were missing an eye, i’d think about going out with you. i may even buy u a new eyepatch…a cute pink one…or one covered in rhinestones, all, …all sparkly and stuff,…so u can impress your friends;-)"
she never replied back.
which brings up a good question to ask the ladies here on this thread.
what attracts girls more than anything on dating websites?
looks, humor, intelligence, money, passion?
what is it that girls get off on most in a guy’s profile…or in messages in general?
i thought it was humor…but apparently not.
Cryoh
5687
I’m going to guess that it’s looks, followed by intelligence (I hope). Money never hurts, though.
Oh yeah dude, don’t insinuate that a female is ugly in the first couple of messages, that will never go well.
Damn koop you makin a nigga think. Actually even before the offer to live together was secured she would ask for favors. I never had a problem complying especially since she looked out for me in my relationships and such and im hella generous, but yeah if we was livin together of course that stuff would come with the territory.
But she also encouraged me to talk to other women and get over hood chick and said it’s ok if I bring people (i.e women) over as long as they respect her and her home.
So…idk really. She’s obviously not trying to get a young nigga or if she is she is being hella subtle and just lettin shit take it’s course. If anything I’m guessing she’s leaving the possibility open, but still lettin me do me from what her actions and her words are showing me.
She has no car so no worries there. lolol. She would prolly just need rides and…ya know…money. I’m actually more worried about her getting attached then I am. She gets kinda lonely despite the fact that she is dating around. And if we living together and considering how kind natured I am, i think it would too easy for someone to read too much into it.
*shrug
Humor is important as long as you have looks and money. Without those, your attempts at humor will make you seem like a douchebag or “creepy.” Try to have pictures of you out being social with others because if you don’t many women on dating sites will assume you are a loser who has no friends. I’ve had more luck asking a girl out in the first message.
Neesa
5690
For me… I’m a bit shallow, so… I have to be able to look at you without wanting to gouge my eyes out with plastic sporks. That’s for sure.
Mmkay, but after that, I think:
- Seem intelligent or have the capacity to engage in an intellectual conversation
- I’m internet bias and somewhat of a Syntax Soviet/Grammar Nazi, if I see a message with “u r so hot”, that is an instant “Hellllllllllllllllllllllll no.” The guy could be awesome, but, I can’t get past the fact that you don’t even want to type a coherent sentence. Some messages I felt like I had to be on some Nancy Drew shit to figure out what they were trying to say. Ugh. No thanks.
- Have some knowledge in gaming/electronics
- Likes sports (preferably football)
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Humor: If you can keep me laughing, that’s like 1000 cool points right there
But, I agree with Cryoh. Don’t assume the chick is ugly in messages to show that you’re “open”. Sorta makes you come off as either a total douche or desperate for anything with a vagina. Maybe she hates the way photographs. Not everyone is photogenic.
Like, I look better in pictures than I do in person. Or at least, I think I do.
Edit: In terms of money, I don’t think your pay stub should be discussed too much in the beginning. If you have a job, that means you have some sort of income. But, no need to divulge any info like that. That’s for more seriously committed relationships. Not picking up first dates.
^ Damn them Nicki Minaj faces are killing me bro…
You prolly do look good but just saiyan tho…
Dating websites aren’t the type of thing for me, chatrooms and shit makes me feel so… creepy…
I can’t do that shit, if I can’t talk the person irl, fuck that… and setting up meeting places online… fuck that too… almost feels like being led with candy into some rape situation… nah son…
@ axl…
Damn that was the most insulting shit I ever read basically this how I heard it in my head “Ayo girl, I don’t care if you are ugly and got one eye, I’ll get you an eyepatch, and fuck the shit outta you girl, I just want some pu— errmm I mean I love you and your personality is so beautiful”…
Neesa
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What Nicki Minaj faces? I’m smiling in my avatar picture. There is no remanant of “duck lips”.
But, thank you.
Steppin a nigga game up one post at a time. I commend you sir. I will take that to the bank.
Nessa and Rod, did things go well at the Comic Con? Who do I owe 3 spicy chickens to?
Neesa
5694
Lol. He wasn’t there. I chilled with Qrazy and Koop for a bit before getting lost to find my BF. 
No spicy chickens this time.
Shervin
5695
How the hell do you approach girls to dance at clubs? I feel like its too loud to try to talk her and the “sneak behind & grind” move is just creepy.
Go up to a girl and say “I’m gonna put my balls in your nose” and she’ll be yours for however long you want.
OsgX
5697
There really isn’t a ton of options to choose from. You either do the sneak behind and grind move, take a girls hand and see if she’ll start dancing with you, ask, get a drink and start, be pretty, or…dance by yourself well enough that they want to approach you to dance with them. All of this really depends on the venue. I doubt I would do the sneak behind and grind move at a royal ball. You never know though. Some of them would be ready to put on a show once a drop of liquor hits the tongue, under the guise of being “drunk.”
Some girls like the aggressive shit.
ROFL yup I’m convinced now, this is an universal truism. They always do try to be slick with it like you won’t notice someone nose deep in your shit. Thought this shit just happened to me til my friend told me some girl pulled it on him, and now I hear it here. The fuck is the appeal? That’s some primal, animalistic shit that snuck through evolution.
Neesa
5699
I don’t go around smelling dudes… That’s just fucking weird.
thurst
5700
you either ask them to dance or just grab them.
