3941

Never had one stop talking to me outright, but I’ve gotten my sexuality questioned, been looked at crazy, etc. :lol:

Yeah, and thosel’ll be the first ones crying and shit if they get burnt. Also the first ones to call a chick a ho. How you gonna have the nerve to call somebody shit knowing damn well you’d bang a plate of thanksgiving dressing if it was moist enough?

3942

The best advice is not to try in this case.

Girls at jobs like that one get hit on all the time, so you become “ugh another one” and if her attitude seems nice, it could be a product of the job. Like I have to tell my boy that semi-crushes on cute waitresses; she’s the same to the next guy, she give him the same charm - you werent anything special.

Thats just me. IMO, you gotta time it(meeting girls period) right, and even though the “rule” is not to talk to a chick you work with, that actually seems the best time to get on with a girl at their job; when you work there too. You get a feel for each other, you’re around each other a bit, a lot of people naturally hit it off like that, and you’re not getting the Customer Service Edition of the girl.

3943

Yeah, at the job is definitely not the place to do it, You gotta remember that they’re hired guns at that point, they get paid to be nice and shit

3944

Main reason why I haven’t acted on going at her… maybe we’ll run into each other on the street…

3945

That is my number 1 rule. I don’t hit on, nor even make it look like I’m remotely interested the women I work with. Thats a fucking time bomb waiting to happen. I pretend that women don’t even exist at my job, even if they are cute. I just walk right the fuck by and forget about it.

3946

I don’t work with her tho, I’m a customer.

3947

If you keep coming by and you build a relationship with her I’d say go for it, but if you just pass through to get some shit? KIM.

3948

I go in there frequently, and buy random bull crap half the time I don’t really need. My mom is the one who told me about her, I never paid attention to the workers. I made eye contact the time before last visit and just got mesmerized with her. Chick is fucking gorgeous to me… sigh

3949

In all honesty kid? Don’t fuck with it. Shes at work, shes really ain’t looking for a hook up, if she is, she’ll make it obvious. Just keep it moving man, lest you start a buddy buddy relationship with her, just roll on through pimpin.

3950

During my time as a manager at a museum, there was a delivery driver who had a thing for me. At first it was simple “hi” and “bye”…then we gradually moved up to conversation.
I let him know I was seeing someone and he kept it at a friendly level…then a few months later he was asking me to dinner and such. I told him no thank you every time but eventually it became annoying…to the point where my staff noticed it and they started to warn me when he was coming up the landing to deliver our sodas. I started hiding in other parts of the museum because I just did not want to be bothered.
Please do not approach her…nothing worse than feeling uncomfortable at work.

3951

So…okcupid troll dating profile update.

My friend continues to troll with his account while I set up another account for just because my friend wasn’t trolling hard enough.

Well, turns out over the span of 2 days, I’ve gotten over 30 messages from men, some who’ve even messaged me more than once without me replying to them, and even some who continue to respond to me even after I continue to tell them how nerdy, ugly or how much of a douchebag their pictures are. Plus it’s pretty funny seeing how corny these guys are. One guy even looked like Mike Golic pre neutri-system lol.

Oh and how’s this for a kicker? One guy sent a message earlier Monday. I deleted it without replying. He sent the same copied/pasted message again last night. So I decide to check out his profile because he says he’s from Philadelphia and works for a radio station in town. He gives his name, which is something I’ll refrain from mentioning for now. So I’m looking through his pictures and see he’s in front of a microphone that has the ESPN AM radio station logo for Richmond on it. I look at his name again, and come to find out, this guy is a co-host for a program I listen to every day on the way home lol. I’m wondering how far I should go with this…

3952

NOW I care…take it to the moon…

3953

This is practically me and the girl on “that time of the month” I posted about earlier ^^… Replace museum with grocery store… Now I may lose my job over this… Use this as a lesson. But I swear there were some signals, I was just too slow and dumb to notice them at the time…

3954

errr…
no means no?

3955

Not advice. I like this girl a lot.

3956

How can you really like someone you barely met? Not to be rude or anything, but it is just a first impression thing. Heaven knows if this chick is really a psycho bitch. But in all honesty, it doesn’t really seem much. Are you gonna be willing to travel to see her at her school? Change your schedule to fit hers? All that high school bullshit nonsense? Yeah, please. Don’t do that. Jeez.

Ugh, to be honest, I’m gonna have to go with Zeon and say just move on and find someone else to chill with at you school. You got 2 more years ahead of you. And yes, I think most of us would know since a lot of us have been out of high school for some time now, bro (at least 5+ years). Plus, it was just a party and the whole “That’s cute thing” doesn’t mean she’s interested in you… Like… "During dinner she asked me to pass something so I did and held it for her and she responded with “that’s sweet”. I’ve said that shit to customers and strangers that did nice things for me.

My interest level?
0

Man, this makes me so glad I’m out of high school. Though, college isn’t all that better. But I wouldn’t know. I’m the girl that sits in the cafeteria with her headphones blaring and glaring at any possible person that tries to talk to me while I’m studying. :rofl:

Yeah, I hated going to work (at Five Guys) and having to be nice and chipper to customers and then guys would try to flirt with me while I’m working. First thought came to mine “Ugh, just take your damn burger and go.” Bad enough I had to deal with the guys behind the counter hitting on me and telling me that I need to try some black dick almost every time we were on the same shifts.

Dear God. /rolls eyes

3957

I already knew it wasn’t a good idea to approach her at her job, I wanted to see if I was right in my thinking. thank you

3958

We went through this subject like 2 pages ago. Why dudes gotta be so hard up?

I mean, I’m not being “pro woman” or any such shit, but some dudes set themselves for failure. I know some of these cats in here will say, “fuck wat da bitch think” but its not that simple. Cause if you say “fuck wat she think” when she tellin yo ass “no” get ready for a harrassment case, or lost job(as we see), ect. Plus the dudes that worry about the stuff are the ones that get the most salty when denied.

And I have a little more info, after chilling with the girl who could supposedly be pregnant early this morning. She was mad because “3rd party”(girl who told me) had done some shady stuff, causing her to go to jail over the weekend. It was while she in jail, that Ms.3rd party decided to tell me this.

I told her “Well, 3rd party said you could be pregnant by a Mexican.” I took myself out of the equation in the inquiry. She says that she’s not pregnant at all. I believe her, because she got pregnant before by someone she dated(had a premature stillbirth- she drinks too much), and told me that she thought she was. She made the point that she told me then, so she would tell me now. I asked her was she positively sure, and that she knows that I dont care what she does with others, but we cant do anything if she’s pregs. She says no.

For now I’ll go with that. Seems like Ms. 3rd Party really has something against the girl, and is trying to mess shit up. Cause obviously I wasnt gonna mess with her if she was carrying, but if that was 3rd’s intention, she should have known I would at least ask, especially about something that important. We did end up doing something this morning, and she felt like she had to make sure I wanted to hit.

Either way, its all good. I dont have to introduce her to my real life.

You know, I feel like I have my head so cool when it comes to MEETING chicks, and stuff, but I do some dumb ass shit when it’s time to actually fuck. I’ve been thinking about this shit for the last 2 days, and I easily let her deny it, and then did it yet again without a hat. Vaya Diego Vaya!

3959

Cause some guys think “No means I need to try harder.” :rofl:

3960

No means yes when you are drunk and there are no witnesses.