3181

Baw…they’re young and immature; we’ve all been like that at one time in our lifes. “Life” will creep up on them soon and they will see the light…or not

3182

Can’t really say that I was going around posting my sex life on Facebook for others to see. I was pretty L7 at 21 and L7 now. :rofl:

3183

probably because you wear glasses bc you’re nearsided and not to be cool

loser

3184

Cool story bro.
Tell it again.

3185

probably because you wear glasses bc you’re nearsided and not to be cool

loser

3186

Thanks.

3187

n p jersey represent though

3188

All day, everyday.
Til I move from here.

3189

i left nj a long time ago only came back once and hated it

on relationships if someone clicks like on your facebook status right after you post it does that mean they want to hook up with you?

3190

Meh, I’m coming up on my 2 years (dating) with my woman, I’ve got a lot of friends younger than me getting married (I’m 24). smfh. But I’ve come to realize that engagement is the training wheels for the new generation as far as taking the relationship further. Unfortunately the tradition of it all (asking father/mother’s permission, respecting family wishes, so on so forth) is just a skimmed over part of the system. Shit, even my sister was proposed too at 19 years old to a guy that was over in Europe. (He visited twice a year, and on his last trip proposed without the consent of my father; which is huge)

Times are changing.

3191

Totally agree with you, Cujojr. In a relationship, marriage should always be an “if” rather than a “when”.

Unfortunately, too many couples forget this, resulting in skyrocketing divorce rates and plummeting sanctity for the special ceremony.

3192

Here’s a scenario.

You and your girlfriend of 6 weeks are getting along really well. She introduces you to her happily married parents, and they like you, a lot.

All is well.

Until you see her mom tongue down some guy in public who isn’t her Dad. Mom sees you, see her. With inhuman speed she manages to catch up with you.

And she offers to pay you $500 on the spot for your silence?

What would you do?

My friend refused the money and promised not to tell his girlfriend. But now, the mom acts paranoid around him. Sometimes she’s extremely nice, other times she’s ultra snappy, but then super apologetic. He thinks maybe he should have taken the money.

3193

that happened to my friend sam weir when he saw neal schweiber’s dad kissing a girl at the store

the dad tried to buy them an atari for silence but it didn’t work out too well

3194

You/Your Friend needs to have a one on one with the Mom. No cash talk is needed. It just needs to be a two sided conversation to bring it to terms (regardless if it is cash or mutual silence, or even… got forbid she realizes that her husband isn’t her standard anymore.) Instead of a bum rushed decision because she got caught.

I’m talking at least an hour conversation of the events that transpired.

3195

Nice Freaks & Geeks reference :wink:

3196

Seriously, I do not believe in plastering sex information online. I have an issue talking about sex in general (unless you are in the select group of 3 I feel comfortable around to talk about it with…)
Had an ex with a bunch of female friends who were wayyyyy into his business. One of them asked me how sex was with him the first time I hung out with her in public.
Not cool…

3197

Well, she probably feels like you did her dirty, because in her mind there was more then just a hangout thing AKA she liked you. So, it will probably be pretty hard to come back from that, but if you can get a hold of her tell her the truth why it happen that way, and the way you felt. It may not fix anything, but if she is worth it go for it. If it doesn’t work there is more fish in the sea.

3198

I really tried not to respond but here it goes…
The first highlighted point boils down to this…how DARE you not be at her feet the same way all the other guys are? She is hot and everyone want her, so why should you wait for her?
So that first point actually answers the questions you posted on here.ong story short, if she is worth it you need to clear this up with her.
[LIST]
[]You aren’t dating
[]If you are then she needs to let it be known
[]and needs to make time to date
[]If she cannot make time to date then you need to see if this is worth it for you
[/LIST]

3199

Update:
First off, thanks for the advice guys.

Since I posted up; my girl, through her own motivation, confronted the cause of her depression and has made a strong change for the better.
She realized that it was the benzos that were lowering her motivations in life and making her depressed. Anyone who has abused those drugs know what they do to you over time.
For so long she didnt think she could stop them, but after her school semester was over she quit cold turkey, stuggled with the issue of quiting, for about a month. And now she is a new woman, drug free, full of energy shes smiling and laughing again, and our sex life is back to normal. She really showed a strong will, and even though that first month after she stopped was the hardest month Ive had with her, Its worth It now, and Im glad I stayed.
I think that through this Ive learned that long term relationships require you to really focus on the long term. For better or worse, and all that jazz.
I dont see myself ever asking if I should walk away from ‘US’, this hardship really helped me grow as a companion.

3200

@Mr. Nannie: I know what you mean. My boyfriend continues to show how much he loves and cares for me. He took a day off from work to take me to my dentist about 1.5hrs away… Paid for my prescription (thank God I have insurance cause I had to get 4 things of pills) Just so my mouth would stop hurting. **Best. Boyfriend. Ever. **And before anyone says he’s pussy whipped, he’s not. I told him he didn’t have to take the day off, that I’d just get a ride with my mom to it done. But he wanted to take care of me instead.