Honestly giving out a FB is dumb…you shoulda said youll take her number instead. That way you could atleast contact her directly a lot easier. What i would do is shoot her message through FB…get her number…set something up.
If it doesnt work out…fuck her…keep it moving. Who wants to play on the internet with some broad…waste of time imo
thurst
3162
sounds like your boy might’ve threw a little CB lol. but yeah, the number would’ve been better…hit her up with a fb message or w/e and try to meet up.
Neesa
3163
Yeah, and who knows, that might not be her personal one if she’s a model. 
Qrazy
3165
yea, I think other threads talking about marriage or never getting married have taken over…
sambo
3166
man I havent been in here for a while.
so there’s this chick, apparently she likes me but she ‘s too busy to do anything with me more than once or twice a month. if she’s not with me she’s with her family, with her girl friends, or working. she has zero experience dating dudes. meanwhile I’ve been taking out girls here and there cuz I dont see any point in puttin all my eggs into one basket when that basket is too busy to hold eggs anyway. she has never dated before, or even kissed a dude. its a contradiction in my eyes because a lot of dudes think she’s hot, but she turns everybody down. but aye she keeps hittin me up, so that’s gotta mean somethin’.
anyway, here’s the problem. I went to a party last week, got to first and second base with a couple of cute chicks. but a couple of her friends were there (I didn’t know) and told the girl about what I did. now she wont respond to me.
- i’m not actually dating this girl so how is she gonna get jealous/start ignoring me like that?
- is there anything I should/need to do to fix this up?
thanks for any advice
Understandably she’s upset about hearing a guy she likes doing shit with other girls however, like you said you’re single you don’t have an obligation to her so tell her (on the phone or voice mail NOT online) that while reminding her the right woman will keep you away from others. If she continues to ignore you then move on because I’m sure you don’t want to date someone that emotionally immature.
I met a really cute girl yesterday who’s as nerdy as I am (well maybe not about film but games, anime, etc) let’s see how this goes.
sambo
3168
that sounds pretty slick. I’ll be sure to make good use of it, thanks.
Its stalled a lil here huh? So anyway, ladies or gents of SRK why would a girl be mad that you (a male) is speaking to her ex-bf even though you guys arent friends? And you obviously arent trying to hit on her.
Densuo
3170
Debs. Please use a different condom.
Also. The only relationship advice I can offer is for termination of relationships:
pull the damn trigger. Do not hesitate. All it leads to is regret and hanging on.
Also. Ockham’s razor.
Edit; Vegas pimp: I’d take a guess and say she got the hots for you and her relationship ended sourly with that dude.
Hey what’s everyone thoughts on getting hooked up by someone? Like say your friend puts in really good word for you and this girl is interested now. Sometimes I get the feeling like maybe she’s just doing this and that to be nice and not offend my friend and what not and it’s not really my “game” that’s working. Idk, perhaps I’m thinking about it too much. Perhaps I’m doing everything fine.
Neesa
3172
Maybe your friend has more faith and confidence in you than yourself and talked about you pretty good to this chick. In the end, I really think you’re putting way too much thought into it. Either that or she’s just doing it to get closer to your friend.
Zephyr
3173
It’s a hit or miss thing. I’ve hooked up two people who ended up both getting married with the person I presented. But there was one hella disaster story in there, too.
If you’re interested, try it out. The worst thing that can happen is that it doesn’t work out, but you’ll never know if it can without trying. Get hooked up!
It’s so confusing when you can get along well with a girl you have absolutely nothing in common with on an intellectual or social level, yet can’t get anything started with a girl who shares similar interests.
What’s up, everyone? It’s definitely been a while. I agree with white shadow. But it’s still great because sometimes you want a girl who does her own thing over doing it with you.
Neesa
3176
Okay, so this guy on my Facebook plastered around the picture of the engagement ring he got for his girlfriend. I thought it was disgustingly gross and I guess slightly cute. My problem? They’re 21 and have only been dating for 6 months. I didn’t want to be a big bitch so, I kept most of my opinions to myself. I think it’s a terrible idea to try to jump the gun so early and in so little time. They claim they’re not getting married for a few years. Then, why not wait for a few years then propose if you’re still together? Dropping $600 on a relatively ugly ring (in my opinion) when you should give yourself more time to really figure out if this is the person for you?
Style is in the eye of the beholder, so if he/she likes it then there is nothing to complain about. If they break up he can “attempt” to get it back, but highly doubt that happen. 21 is mad young and i’m not one of those people whom like to wait when it comes to life changing events. I got married 1 1/2 years after popping the question and that was more for saving for the wedding/house.
Neesa
3178
Just thought the whole 21 and just dating for 6 month was eh… Seems a bit rushed to me.
Koop
3179
It is rushed… but again to each THEIR own. Our view on it is the same but apparently not to them…
Neesa
3180
Pretty much. Even at 21, I wasn’t thinking about marriage. I think I’m just gonna delete them off Facebook. After I saw the post about them talking about how much they fuck, my eyes threw up. That shit isn’t cute at all.
