@MRGAY, I had a very similar situation that turned out amazing. Might not be same circumstances but it’s worth giving my input cause I know how frustrating that can be.
I met my girlfriend of a year now (my soul mate) when I went out with a friend for few drinks one night. She worked with my buddy and had just broken up with her ex that week. It was really hard on her and she was tired of men at the time. :crybaby:
Right before this I had been led on by a little vomiting biotch that was basically using me to get to my best friend. So I was very annoyed by women and had no intention of dating at the time. :mad:
After that night we met, I got her number and asked her if she wanted to grab a drink sometime. We went out alot, neither to eager to be in a relationship. But we had a blast together. I started to be real interested and she started to pull away 
(this was at the one month period). Long story short she started to have feelings too but she wanted to make sure she wasn’t just rebounding.
:blah: Blah blah blah I gave her space for a long time and then she finally was over him and we have been together for a year now. She is the perfect woman for me and I am so happy I waited. :love:
The main point I’m getting at is some take alot more time to get over an ex. Also many people control their emotions differently and until they trust you, might shell up to avoid hurting you or being hurt. :nunchuck:
However, she might just be leading you on for the attention. It’s really hard to say not knowing her. Just be present but don’t be unguarded. Hope that was some good advice :wink2:
Neesa
3122
Dear guys on SRK,
I hope none of you guys are desperate to shell out hundreds of dollars on a female that you know you have no chance with. ESPECIALLY, if she told you that you had no chance. If so… May God have mercy on your retarded soul.
Love, Neesa
Yeah, my friend keeps giving me money/things when I told him straight up that had no chance in hell with me. Ever. That I’ve been happily dating my boyfriend for almost three years. But he keeps on giving. Sorry but, I’m not retarded to say no. Call me a golddigger or a moocher all you want… But if you wanna give me $150 of Steam credits. Yeah, thanks a lot, bro. Now I can get me a copy of Bulletstorm. 
Tits all day, son.
Koop
3123
Tell him a accidental sex story and it will end it. Detailed.
Can I have his number, no one has to tell him I’m a dude . . . Right
Neesa, if ole boy wants to be dumb and keep giving you stuff, then by all means. However, be aware that some men may hear you say “no,” but if you take gifts from us, then we see that action as one of acceptance… We read more into actions than we do words, so every time you accept one of his “gifts,” even if you’ve made it clear vocally, he will read your acceptance of his gifts as acceptance of him and his advances.If you really want him to leave you alone, you would stop letting him buy you shit or returning it to him with the message “I do not want you–EVER” attached.
I understand that this is hard for females to understand as you think differently than us, but to a man, ANY attention a woman gives us is an ‘indicator of interest’, and as such, we will RTSD you continuously if we are at all interested in you. I’m not saying its right or wrong, or if it even makes sense, but its something women need to realize. Especially when you don’t really like the guy-- Its almost like leading him on in a sense.
I would agree with Po, in a way its like me saying to you, “I would never date you and don’t find you attractive” then winking after I say it. Some women would think I was flirting :wink2:
Neesa
3127
@Parker
But yeah. He’s too much of a sucker to push things that far and would back off if I told him to. This has been happening for quite some time, but it’s always randomly. Not like an everyday thing. But it’s cause he doesn’t have a girlfriend. When he was talking to a chick, I didn’t hear from him for months. So it was like whatever. Soon as they got problems, he started talking to me again. Much later, the random gifts came in. I reminded him again that he doesn’t need to give me anything and I’d be fine without them. But he keeps insisting. They started small, then started to get bigger again. If he starts getting stupid, I know how to put my foot in his ass quite easily.
However, thanks for the advice fellas. <3
Only if you’re a leg humper, the type that considers Hooter’s girls being nice as real flirting.
@Neesa, hate to get seeeerious here but. . . it needs to be said. If you have been dating your man for 3 years, how do you think he feels if you are still friends with a dude that wont back off :bluu:
I would suggest avoiding the guy all together. Because I know for myself if my GF was still talking with a guy that keeps telling her “Im better then your boyfriend, I can buy you this, yadda yadda, leave him.” I would be a little mad. Might be wearing on your relationship more then you think. But your most likely not telling your BF about this for that same reason :nono:
Just food for thought 
Yeah man, not all guys are wise enough to realize when a woman is being nice as opposed to trying to get your attention for real. I had to learn that lesson over time just as anyone else. Sometimes the ‘attention getters’ are so subtle that you might mistake plain old kindness for “Hey come talk to me, i want the d.”
Also, a dude can just be mad thirsty after running through a long dry patch, and just think any and every interaction with a female is a possible hook-up. It can(and has) happened even to the best of us… I’m guilty of doing it myself once or twice. Not something to be proud of, but just another life lesson to be learned.
Neesa
3131
Thing is… He’s not telling me that he’s better than my boyfriend and I’ve told my boyfriend about him getting me stuff. He’s not saying anything like that at all. And my boyfriend can buy me way more than this guy can if I really wanted to be with a guy that can provide me with materialistic things. Trust me. That’s not me though. But like I said, this isn’t an everyday, all the time thing. I’ve told him no plenty of times in the past and he backed off. I just really wanted Bulletstorm. Lol.
Oh, did I mention this dude’s a nerdy virgin?
^ On blast… damn son…
I need to find a thirsty ass rich woman like Oprah Winfrey… getting free money must be pretty great(I have a guilty conscience though, that would get in my way)… you’re leading him on still though… real talk something does need to be said…
But you’re leading him on for a shitty ass FPS though:rofl:…
In your position(no homo), I would have at least had Duke Nukem on preorder:rofl:… man this is just too funny to me…
kaz
3133
I think it’s more of a respect thing. If it doesn’t bother your boyfriend like that, then I guess it’s cool I suppose.
But ordinarily it’s not really looked at by most men as respectful, no matter how stupid the guy giving the gifts looks when he knows he doesn’t have a chance.
I don’t think it is a case of him seeing it as acceptance and your part, it is a case of him trying to set himself up for the rebound. I find things like that humorous as people like him are usually on the bottom of the list and end up crying how the woman they desires date pure douchebags.He’d be better of doing nothing.
I wouldn’t say she is leading him on. It’s not like she took the gifts then started to flirt with him or drop misleading lines that could reasonably lead him to hope. She out rightly told him that nothing would happen.
Neesa
3135
Yeah. I’ve told him a A LOT of times that he has no chance. And I’ve never played Duke Nukem. I could but, meh. If anything, I could just play that at my boyfriend’s (if he gets it). I just wanted mindless killing. I don’t accept EVERYTHING. Most of the time it was around normal gift giving times (Christmas/my birthday). Other than that, if I can’t get it (or my boyfriend feels generous), I don’t get it. I just mentioned it cause it came to mind.
Whatever. Beach next week with the mister. Aww yeah. :smokin:
I’m missing out on a lot in herrre.
I had lake time last weekend, good times.
I am starting to fall with one of my friends. Normally this wouldn’t be a problem, but I am very close buddies with her 4 overprotective brothers. I hang out with them all the time. What do I do SRK?
kaz
3138
Have you told her brothers?
Neesa
3139
Hell yeah. Sounds good! Sad that the weather won’t be as warm as it was this week, but, whatever. Chillaxin’ time is good whenever.
