Porn has really ruined my ability to masturbate to normal shit. Unless it’s a huge black dude banging an Indian midget with a donkey watching in the background, that shit is too vanilla.
Damn she’s lame.
Telling people not to look at nude photos online is the same as telling people not to look at car crashes on the highway.
Anyway, looking at those pics is not a violation of any kind, sexual or otherwise.
To call it that is to belittle what an actual sexual assault is.
It’s as if a thief broke into a celebrity’s home, stole nude pics from a photo album, and then posted those pics all over public places in the city, parks, telephone poles, etc.
Telling people not to look is denying them their freedom to look at anything they want, and the theft is not a sexual violation either.
The blame doesn’t lie with the gawkers or the women who posted those pics online.
The blame belongs to the hacker and the lame security of whatever site those pics were stolen from.
The solution is to improve online security.
You take nude pics, then you run the risk of it getting leaked. Its that simple.
I never really got the female activist argument “dont wear short skirt”. You dont see me waving hundred dollar bills and pimping gold chains in a place like Detroit and expect I wont get robbed.
The blame should be directed at the hackers, breaking into those accounts is of course illegal and punishable by law.
But the celebrities and people in general should understand the risks associated with these kinds of services. In an age where we hear about all kinds of online security breaches, people should take some mitigation measures on their own (stronger passwords and less sensitive info stored only on cloud drives).
Blaming victims, and asking people to take steps from becoming a victim are two different things. Asking young women to not accept random drinks from guys, or not walk on dark streets alone at night shouldn’t take away from the blame a rapist would bare if they commit the crime.
Blatant blaming/trashing of the victims should be criticized, but not everyone speaking on how they could’ve taken better preventative measures is trashing or blaming them by saying such things. People should know there are grey areas in opinions, not every point-of-view is black or white.
Well, you should have the freedom to wave 100$ bills if you want to and not get robbed if you do.
Now if you do that, and you do get robbed, the blame lies not with you but with whatever societal flaws/personality disorders prompted those people to want to rob you in the first place.
The solution would be to elevate the economic wealth of that neighbourhood.
Put it another way, you could wave 100$ bills in a posh neighbourhood like Beverly Hills or in a rich person’s home, and have a reasonable expectation not to get robbed.
Well, that freedom should extend to any neighbourhood/area.
The feminists are right when they say that a woman should have the freedom to wear short skirts and not expect to get raped.
And they’re right when they say that the solution to this is to educate boys/men not to rape or harass a woman who dresses like that.