Missing Persons wife just needs some dick and cuddle time and less whiney husband bitching about his job time.
Fixed that for ya. :tup:
Tried the former, she “hates sex.”
Bow wow = dog? = ugly bitch? Maybe?
In my (shitty) opinion staying with some one who is putting you through this recent shit because your worried about them is not good. Though, I wouldn’t listen to me if I was giving myself relationship advice, that’s just my opinion because I’ve seen my little sister go through the same kinda situation…
Yes.
I’m kidding (kinda). You’re trying to fix her. You can’t. She has to fix herself and if she ever begins to see that she needs to do this, she won’t see it before she destroys you. Leaving her would be, in a sense, “fixing” her to a degree.
Do you go to shrink4men.com? It’s a great help, as it spells a lot of things out for you that you really can’t see for yourself, and that if friends family point out you’re quite likely to shrug off as misunderstanding, or ‘hatin’ or whatever. Go there, read the articles and comments and I promise you’ll be saying “omg, that sounds like I could have written that!” within the first article or two.
As always, g’luck. :tup:
This IS the prototypical “pics” scenario, isn’t it?
Shouldn’t MP just set up a fan next to her while she’s sleeping, I hear that shit scares Koreans
More like stereotypical, but I’ll let you slide this once.
Should also try running the vacuum and moving it towards her.
Man I even looked it up and saw
and was guessing a sentence JUST like Azure’s provoked the first “pics or it didn’t happen”
I so sorry…
Million, if when you died your only choices were oblivion or remaining in this world for 100 years as a phantom that can’t interact with it, which would you pick? No bullshit catches, so you won’t be stuck in a ghost box or some shit, or trapped somewhere in deep space. I guess you could fly/float.
I’m sorry I have to even say this, but you’re a fucking idiot. And a beta male of the worst kind.
I’m going to put you on ignore now until you wise up, because reading this bitch-made shit is pissing me off.
If the situation was reversed, she would have left your sorry ass forever ago and not thought twice about it. And if you offed yourself as a result, she’d be like "Oh, well. "
You’re her husband, not her goddamn shrink. You can’t fucking change people, they have to want to change themselves before they accept any help of any kind.
Drop the woman.
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Excuse me? Come again?
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With YOU.
Forgot that part didn’t ya lol.
Seriously though, you don’t just jump in and be like LETS FUCK BABY. You gotta spark that interest in her and by interest I mean you have to get her panties wet for you so she is jumping on the d. All I gotta do for my girl is just bite her on the neck after I wrap me arms around her and she is dripping like a faucet. But that’s because I know her so well. And we aren’t even married.
Gotta come initially before you can come again.
amirite?
AF I need your Pinkie Pie rimshot right about now for my excellent joke.
This. If your significant other hasn’t even hinted as to where their spot is, your relationship has problems.
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That was better than AF’s.
AF you’re fired.
Yo, I’m just the resident lurker, but MP I gotta tell you that its time for you to roll out. I respect that you care for her and want to see her do better, but you can’t repair damaged people. They have to personally want to get that help to change for the better. Nothing you say or do is going to make her happy or fix whatever it is that is broken in her.
For your own financial, mental, and emotional stability, you need to leave her when the moment presents itself. Squirrel away some money, plan a one-way trip, and NEVER look back.
Or don’t, but don’t come crying when she makes your life even more miserable and depressing.
On a lighter note, Valle beasting fools in Persona tonight. He’s still got it.
You don’t sound either crazy or stupid; you sound confused and overwhelmed. Both of these are entirely ok to feel. I have felt all four of those in this relationship. I have gone through the same shit. I don’t post much about it but I have had some fucking insane fights with my wife. There has been very little that has come easy in this relationship. Last fight I had with her was the week before last. Hell one time I had enough, broke up with her and went to the extent of calling my mom and my best friend to let them know what was up. Breaking up with her was the best thing that happened since it let her know that there were some very serious boundaries which needed to be respected. The big difference between my situation and yours is that both of us are willing to put in the work. I have drown as much bullshit her way as she has drown mine. But even if it doesn’t happen in the best way possible, we will try to resolve this shit (this is worse now since she her memory has gotten somewhat worse and many times she just forget what she did to piss me off, fucking heartbreaking man).
My relationship is not yours. My situation is not yours. I do not live with a person who willingly does things to hurt me emotionally. If you believe that there is something sincerely wrong with her and you wish to help, there are no other options other than to situate yourself in a place where you can help. The issue is that the best help you can provide her is not necessarily the type of help you want to give her. Shaft made a joke earlier about Phil Hartman but it applies to this situation. If you find her to be unstable, taking a gamble on the depths of her instability is playing with the one check your ass can cash.
Don’t waste your time trying to diagnose her because you aren’t a professional. The best you can do is inform yourself to ask question (this is a very good thing to do). Learning about what she could possibly have can be done while you put yourself in a safe situation. For better or worse you guys are stuck; you are both parts of each others’ history until the end of times. Even if you leave, she will come back at some point in some form. Until that time, remove yourself from this moment and start preparing yourself physically, emotionally or financially as you feel it may be needed.
Being on your own is going to suck ass. Leaving her is going to hurt. Even if you are the one initiating, you will not be spared some emotional turmoil over the decision. The pain which you will experience will be counter balanced by the tranquility you will find in your new situation. Disengage yourself from the situation and accept that your marriage has come to an end. Whether it was good or bad overall is for you to decided in a couple of years. At the moment the situation is not good for you.
You need to lawyer up. Speak to your parents back home and let them know of the situation. Buy a voice recorder and keep it on hand at all times. Make a plan that has you living on your own at a moment’s notice within a week. Seriously this is fucking it. I know I was there at the “this is fucking it” moment too and I managed to fix things. But like I said, she wanted to fix things. My relationship is not yours, my situation is not yours; But your danger is very much real and very much yours.