This is something I’ve heard and I will admit that it seems intuitive. I’ve also read, however, that cohabitation (which I have come to understand is seen as equivalent to sex) before marriage actually lowers the likelihood of long-term success unless there’s some explicit intent for monogamy there (ie. premarital education classes, cohabitation limited to a future spouse). I think this would suggest that physical chemistry, while obviously important, is better off coming after some form of commitment in ensuring the long-term success of a relationship.
I actually think that’s true. Any forms of relationships that are just sex (like after every date, or get together ends in sex) will actually kill the relationship in the end.
What if the person is bad in bed? As in, inexperienced or not doing things to your sexual liking (yet)? That determines how the person feels about you? That seems about as deep as a kiddie pool.
Being around the person and having overall good chemistry should be a start. Having good conversation and enjoying each other’s company is another good sign. If you can’t stand being around the person, why would you bother fucking them? You can get a Fleshlight, use your hand or find a fuckbuddy for that matter. Intimacy is a perk in a relationship. If you’re willing to tweak what you know sexually with yourself and with the other person, it could be the best sex ever. Especially if they is TRUE feelings and emotions behind it. Not some fluff. One night stands feel different than sex with the person you have a deeper connection with. It’s just not the end all to be all.
If that was the case, most guys would be single. 
But on topic: As a female, I hate condoms. Being on the pill and having problems having children is a blessing (and possibly a curse in the future). I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years (and counting). When my Mom’s insurance dropped me for a few months, we had to switch back to condoms. Birth control cost like $100 or more for 1 month’s worth and my doctor was prescribing me 3 months worth. I generally didn’t like it at first, but, we’d rather be safe than sorry. The thinner ones feel pretty good, imo.
i think prostitution is wrong for the woman, i understand the whole thing in concerns with prostitution… however i don’t think i can’t agree with most theists that entertaining a prostitute in itself is generally a sin against the guy, the guy has to be a single man though. I think most theists really do need to accept that sexuality is in our nature, it’s just part of our being that shouldn’t be ignored. maybe us guys should like give the hoe some helpful advice after the sex, like some missionary thing. Maybe like treat them as people, show them kindness and that love is out there and give them words of encouragement that can influence them to try out education and new jobs or some shit.
Herpe symptoms are not always visible and usually do tend to “spring up” and surprise people.
that would be a negative. herp, clamidia, the hiv all don’t have to have symptoms. i’m pretty sure hep c doesn’t have symptoms either.
also i hope you don’t think the whores will be good enough to stop working after they have been diagnoised with something…even the hiv. because they wont. im not sure about japan, but i know in canada you get registered so if you fuck someone without telling them you can get charged with attempted murder. Thailand though you can get tested anoymously, so those skanks just go right back out to the bars.
For real, it sucks giving out legitimate insights then a couple pages later realize you’ve been being trolled.
hmm… i heard the hore houses here actually give monthly testing, if they are sick then they are fired.
So Cisco, tell us more about these whores… what are there celebrity crushes and why?
On the adultery arguement above, I really think it isnt all about sex. Just the fact that you’re messing around with someone while married, sex or just plain old dates, you’re adultering. Works the other way around, you may be single, but messing with someone who is married.
Just my thoughts on what I believe. If you’ve got your eye on someone, make sure they’re either single or divorced. Not married, in the proccess of divorce, etc. Clean cut single, or clean cut divorced.
I just disagree with Cisco’s belief that his Bible is the right version of the Bible. How can you say one version of the Bible is wrong and the other is right? Do you argue with Jews over which books of the Old Testament are the right ones? They’re all translations. Meanings have changed in all versions just by the very nature of being translated. I’m atheistic but I hate people who are intolerant of another person’s beliefs. Is fishjie’s interpretation of the Bible hurting you in any way? I don’t see how it is, so leave it at that. People can believe what they want to.
As far as sex before marriage goes… do you buy a car without test driving it? Buy at TV from Best Buy without seeing what the picture looks like or reading reviews about it?
I don’t like that analogy, your basically calling your spouse a sex object and nothing more.
By that analogy, product vs women wise…you’re bassically saying
Product: “Oh this TV is a great deal, but I cant test it before buyin, no thanks”
Women: “Girl’s nice, perfect, and we get along great, I really like her, but she sucks in bed, so…no thanks”
Female condoms are a lot more expensive, but feel much, much better.
Agreed. Though it’s incredibly weird to think of essentially shoving a Ziploc sandwich bag into the vag before going at it.
Does it… does it ever zip up on you?
lulz
Fortunately, it’s only Ziploc in consistency, not in function. It really is like shovin’ a sandwich baggie up there, though.
And it prevents burns to your meat. Just like the freezer bags