My feeling is that if you are worried about girls when you are living with your parents, you got your priorities in the wrong order. If you get your living situation, job situation, all that on lock, the women will come naturally.
yeah, you should really deny putting any effort forth towards females in your sexual prime because you don’t have your own place. so you can look back and say damn, i didn’t move out till late, and i didn’t get with any girls either!
that’s so much better than to look back and say yeah i didn’t move out till late, but at least i got girls! oh wait I didn’t deserve them.
retarded logic
I see man. My parents don’t bother too much after I graduated from college.
They respect my age alot more than b4 college so I have some freedoms.
But yea I working on moving out. In this economy, even my family agrees that I stay at home and save money to move out.
IF you get a nice understanding girl, tell her your situation, tell them about the economy. Some girls will understand.
How about people making 80K+ a year and still living at home? I know a ton of these people at work and they barely pay rent or help out at home… Pisses me off soo much.
nah, its much smarter to focus on finding a good job which enables you to buy your own place / move out, than it is to get pussy. one will enable you to get tons of pussy down the line, the other will at most enable you to get a few one night stands. most girls are not gonna take you seriously if you live at home, unless its some one night stand. sorry i don’t see how you could have a serious relationship, considering you’re gonna be competing against dudes that are independent and live on their own.
it’s not like you spend every waking moment sitting down thinking about how to get pussy. you can balance finding a job with finding a girl.
i’m not arguing about the viability of a long term relationship. i’m arguing the point that you shouldn’t even bother with the opposite sex if you are still at home.
I would strangle those people on sight.
I would loooooove to make 80k a year.
Shit, I would be able to move out and still help my parents.
That is some bullshit.
Maybe they’re living in a spot where 80K isn’t that much to move out on. Either that, or they’re neck deep in debt.
If it’s not either one of those, then yeah, strangle on sight. That shit makes me mad to even think about. I’d be out of this place if I made just 40 a year.
right. you can tell some of these dudes have no confidence at all. what the hell i look like saying since i live at home, i shouldnt bother talking to girls? what kinda shit is that? if the girl knows you got money and you know how to talk to her, she’s gonna fuck wit you no matter what your situation is. however i will agree that long term things might get a little iffy cause we all know girls get more and more demanding as time goes on and there is always somebody in line waiting for you to mess up.
relationships are a huge drain on time and money, its not really financially smart to be in one if you can’t even afford to move out. the time required is the worst part imo. gfs tend to want to spend lots of time together, esp the longer the relationship progresses, which is annoying, since it takes away valuable time that could be spent interviewing, practicing interviews, networking, and self study necessary to launch a successful career. like i said, if the discussion is about one night stands, living at home is a non issue.
no doubt its easy to date a girl while living at home, you just say something like
a) "Im helping take care of my ailing folks"
b) “Im saving up enough to get my own place”
im just saying its a financially poor decision. cheaper to bang bar skank or hooker imo
I still live with the parents, but I’m only 18. I’m broke and unemployed, though. lol. Should be getting a job soon, and I’ll save up some cash so I can start looking for a shitty apartment or something, that’d be fine by me. My Mom and Dad have both admitted they enjoy my company, me and my dad are bros 4 life, yo, so they don’t seem to mind.
I’m not saying to ignore pussy if it comes your way. If you can bag that, do it. Just those guys who are chasing after it and wonder how the hell they gonna find a spot to hit it because they still live with the parents - the focus isn’t in the right place, that is what I mean. If they spent that time trying to improve their situation instead of chasing after it, they wouldn’t have to worry about it. fishjie got what I’m saying. It’s just not smart financially to spend money on the girls when you can’t even support yourself well enough to move out on your own.
Not having fun while in your “sexual prime” - that might be the cost of poor decisions made earlier. Choices made early in your career might mean playing catch up for a few years. I’d rather be financially stable at 30 or 40, not getting too much action in my younger years, than being broke at 30 or 40 because I wasted time getting pussy. At that point, there is still Viagra, girls are always going to be around if you are successful, and your quality of life will simply be better.
not to bring it full circle, but if you supposedly “got money” then why are you living at home again?
some dudes are cool with banging broads and asking them to keep it down bcuz moms is in the next room taking a nap, personally it makes me feel like a douche so i’d rather not.
I just look at that as the uncertainty of life and investment… more than simply getting horny, or a twisted desire of getting whipped. The girl you’re chasing after is right there, right now, when you’re able-bodied with no crisis in your life. It’s in the same category as ‘get-rich-quick schemes.’ The success you ultimately want in your career or small business idea is just in your imagination right now, and there’s no guarantee about what your life will look like years from now, or that your investment will turn out the way you want it. Some people are adept at seeing their visions through to success, most aren’t.
I was waiting for this thread to evolve into the pussy issue.
This thread should combine with the Relationship thread 
i didnt mean got money as in rich i just meant it as not being completely broke and able to buy things for yourself.
You should only live with your parents if you are going to school, saving up to get an apartment or sick/injured. Otherwise, you need to get out and be a damn adult. Other acceptable reasons are that you lose something in a freak accident or become handicapped to the point where you can’t take care of yourself. Otherwise, get up off your ass. I have a friend whose brother is 40 something and he is still living with their mom. Everyone had jokes about it at first, but we all know for sure that he isn’t going anywhere. She makes him pay rent and some other bills, but still, how could anyone live like that. It’s not like they live in an expensive area either. I’m sure he could easily afford the rent in New Orleans.
shit i know people that lost more than that in a single day at the casino. can be a lot, or not soo much.
I disagree, but that would turn the thread into a discussion about self improvement, which is completely different altogether. Life might not turn out how you want, but its far better to have actually put in the sweat equity than to have wasted the best years of your life not even trying. I’ll just say that, there are a gazillion girls out there, and as a guy, you can have sex with them at any point in your life. The older you get, the more young hot chicks you pull anyway. Relationships are a serious drain, and if you are in the prime of your life, you want to be focusing on your career, not getting a gf. At that age, pussy is more important than relationships (no one should ever get married in their 20s, that is fucking stupid), and clubbing, bars, and hookers can fulfill those needs.