Not another Gay thread... version 2.0.5

Mech: Thanks, dude. Check out the one blodia did though; he got the stick in, though it looks kind of awkward.

EDIT: Nevermind. It works. Thanks again, guys. =D

Who wants to make me a sexy Rogue AV?

u got sexy rogue pix???//

I’ll have to hit ya’ll up with them later. Taking off from work right now. Peace playas.

i’ve got a straight friend living with a gay housemate. both are guys.

is that… umh… an advisable situation to be in?

Very.

sure why wouldnt it be…

Yeah… if your friend trusts the guy enough to live with him, he’s probably not the kind of idiot who would try desperately to seduce a straight guy, or something.

My ex LOVED that shit. (No homo! SHE loved it!)

Raises hand

What’s with so many gay dudes acting so…gay? You know what I mean, talking with a lisp and calling everything FABULOUS!!! Do most gay guys actually go for that type of thing? I have the same question with lesbians who date chicks that go out of their way to look like men. It boggles my mind.

I have absolutely no problem with homosexuals, but I can’t stand flamers (or any other stereotype based personality, like “gangstas” for example).

Oh and I ask this to all the girls I know, but it works in here too:
Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp?
Brad Pitt is the hottest man on the planet. No homo!

Why wasn’t my Toblerone question answered? That’s so straight of you guys. :sad:

Neither. They suck.

Dude, you got me, and same. :lol: I really cannot explain why people act like that.

I also don’t really think brad pitt or johnny depp are hot, but I think brad pitt is cooler. Maybe just because of fight club…

uh… it’s the most phallicaly shaped of the candy bars?

i’ve never in my life had one… but i think that it’s or was marketed for ladies. I’ll wiki it later and find out if that’s true

heh… so heres the thing about flamers…

First off … not all flamers are actually gay. Mind boggling i know but it’s true.

Most times they don’t even know they are flaming.I know a guy who every body calls a flame and i asked him one day about it … why does he … well flame? He had no idea that i was even talking about him.

Other than that you have to remember that comming out experiences are different for everyone sometimes you are left with nobody but females in your support group It’s a safe assumption that a person that experienced this may feel most comfortable in a gay persona that is more female.

All of this is just a guess. Personally i don’t mind a flamer theres a guy that goes to CF that is a bit of a flame and I see him there every so often. Good lookin guy but snazzy dresser. I don’t mind flamers as long as it doesnt hide who you are. If it’s totally the way you was raised than be you… same with the whole “thug” mentality… problem is if your an asian cat with a fitted on and a snorkel don’t try to run up on me talking all that hard shit.

brad and johnny are good looking but i’d probably kick both out of bed… they arent husky enough for my tastes… and It’s rare that i go for guys that thin.

No chub, no love.

GTC answered this mostly. I just want to add that the ‘flamers’ aren’t nearly the majority of gay men. They are just the ones who are quite obvious about it all so when you see them you know (or at least have a pretty damned good idea) that they are gay. If you saw a ‘normal’ guy you obviously assume heterosexuality. This is where you have erred. I guarantee you have seen a hell of a lot more “normal” gay men than you have flamers, the difference is that you just didn’t know that those guys were gay, where as you did with the flamers.

As for me, I don’t have a problem with the flamers, generically speaking (I think people should be themselves regardless), but I wouldn’t date one as that personality type doesn’t mesh with my own.

As (apparently) the only gay guy on this board who likes this body type, I’ll answer this one. My answer is … YES. But if I HAD to choose, probably Brad (when he’s not doing the anorexic-smoker look).

See my beef with flamers is I personally feel they aren’t being themselves, they are portraying a stereotype to get attention. This dude in high school for example was a “normal” average dude freshman year. Didn’t talk all goofy or anything like that. Next year, came out of the closet and started talking like that rollerblading hooker in Reno 911.
Now Brad Pitt love aside, I’m straight. I don’t go out of my way to act like I’m some super manly “FUCK YEAH LET’S WATCH FOOTBALL BECAUSE I LOVE PUSSY AND BEER WHOO!” typical straight guy though.
Like I said, I have no problem with gay guys. Just can’t stand people who feel the need to act like stereotypes based off their sexual gender or music then enjoy (that applies to all forms of music, not just gangsta rap by the way. Just the easier to explain my point).

You guys are all hella straight by the way for not showing the love to Brad Pitt. :arazz:

Indeed. And some of them definitely are being fake. But we have to realize some are not. The problem of course is how do I know they are being fake? All I can do is accept that this is who they are for now and look past it.

Also, pretending to be something a person isn’t is also a way of being themselves. For if you (the general you not the literal you) are a person who is fake and lives your life based on others then that is who you are. So a fake person is also being themselves, even if they aren’t being themselves in a more literal sense.

I don’t see why you would have any beef with the way a guy acts when it has nothing to do with you. I mean really, this dude over here wears a midriff shirt and body glitter, who cares. Flamers aren’t my thing really, don’t find them attractive at all, but I could give a crap how they act. I honestly don’t think it’s for attention because it never garners any positive attention that I can think of.

And everything’s already been said about how these dudes aren’t the majority, just the most noticeable.

And Brad Pitt’s okay, just not really my style.

ne-yo. gay or straight?