good luck with that. but yeah like you said the longer it goes on the harder it’s going to be to break off. Unless he’s looking for a 3 way relationship. which is tough and realy not for everyone.
Thanks… but yeah, I see it from his side and understand why he’s acting the way he is, so I’m not mad at him or anything. I don’t think he’s looking for a three way relationship, and if he is, that… sucks. :lol: I think he’s just looking for what he think is an opportune time to bring it up without just having to randomly, out of the blue, be like “oh yeah I found someone else sorry bye thx for ur time ttyl.”
Honestly though, I hope he does something pretty soon. We both feel bad about it but the more he waits, the less it helps all three of us. Plus, I already miss him a lot and want to see him again… and it’d be nice to see him without having that on my mind.
look at you…
So much progress in so little time. :wgrin:
Heheh. :bgrin: Before the last topic I couldn’t even really see myself in a relationship with a guy (never felt anything past sexual), and now I’m swooning! :lovin: Hahah. I love it. Dating a guy feels so much more chill and straightforward in general. No fuckin’ bullshit mindgames to be played, especially since I’m not into guys my age, really. The age thing skips a lot of superficial immature stuff, too, it’s top tier. Also, I’ve come to actually like it when people think I’m an abomination to the world because of it. Shit is just fucking grade A hilarity to me, now. :tup:
Also, my gaydar is gradually improving - it’s awesome. Hahaha, it’s so fun.
Gaydar is a funny thing… when it first “kicked in” I really was just focusing on guys that I really really wanted to be gay and may have just been kind.
over the years though it’s incredible I can spot a “potential slayer” <- buffy refference
a mile away. I can even pick up out a curious guy pretty easily. the only thing is still have trouble with on occasion is with lesbians… it’s sometimes harder for me to pick them out without speaking to them.
lol, nice. Me too. I genuinely believe that “gaydar” does not work across sexes. A gay man can not pick out a lesbian (aside from the blatantly to fairly obvious). Much like how straight people don’t have gaydar as pertains to their sex. ie. straight men may have a form of it with regards to lesbians, but not to gay men (again aside from the obvious).
It’s hard to find a purebread lesbian though. The t.a.t.u. factor is still running around.
you guys have any lesbian friends?
I went out to a lesbian bar in the city here and man … it’s an intimadating thing. the bouncer at the door was this chick that was bigger than me.
I made the mistake of walking in before the rest of my party and man… i thought she was gonna eat me. … in the bad way.
i was actually literrally intimidated.
I do. The first day I met her, I was REALLY interested in her (we got along so damn well), so I got her number, and ended up finding out she was a lesbian.
hey i’ve got pics for you to look at. hit me up tonight if you can and I’ll send you some.
Yep, one of my best friends is a lesbian. Back in high school before we were out (to anybody including each other) we actually dated. Then in our adult life found out each other was gay and were both like :wow:
See now it didn’t go so well with my ex girlfriend.
she left me at graduation for a girl and for some reason she’s been pissed at me ever since…
well i guess that’s not true she stopped talking to me pretty soon after all this happend… i guess if i met her again maybe she’d feel differently.
She sounds sexy.
I have a lesbian friend. She looks like Amy Whinehouse. She’s pretty blunt which is really sexy.
I’m pretty sure that’sa guy which makes him your territory.
nah, you’re not picky. you just pick folds for frigging.
haha, j/k
In any case, hope to see you soon Rob, praying that nothing goes wrong this weekend.
I got brave and checked the main page and it’s a fucking crossdresser like I thought.
I give the gay people on SRK props for being out in the open like this and the level of maturity for a forum based on fighting games is pleasantly surprising.
I have belonged to another forum for years (based on cars/automotive enthusiasts) and never will you see someone come out, you may as well say you enjoy eating babies or something along those lines.
I call bullshit on this. I have gaydar and whoredar so I know what to avoid and what to pick up. I can spot gay men too, even if they aren’t flaming.