If you don’t think it is cheating, I question your judgment and whether or not you have ever deal having a partner. Unless you explicitly say you are not serious/exclusive to each other, it is cheating. Whether you give a fuck though, that is a different issue.
If you are letting someone other than your significant other sexually pleasure you in anyway it’s cheating. Like how is this even up for debate? When you are in a committed relationship. Both parties are under the impression that when it comes to anything sexual. They are the ones that get to pleasure you/receive pleasure from you and no one else. Now if it’s a open committed relationship that’s different.
Handjobs are about as low tier as you can get. The real question is why are you gonna put yourself through so much bullshit for anything less than head?
Rockbogart has a point. Ive never had a good handjob ever, and barely decent blowjobs.
Women grab your dick, and are just yanking on it like an old car part. Then you gotta watch for their fingernails that clip your ballsack. I guess its a good sign that your girl isnt so experience that she jerks you off better than you can, and blows you like shes trying out for whore of the year on the howard stern show. lol
Cheating has a different meaning for many people attached or single. Some believe it’s as little as winking and flirting with someone. Others believe sex is just sex so long as you’re not going to give that other person the same love you give your significant other.