i agree, the basic turn ons that a women requires can be easily met by a 17 year old, although i still do disagree with teacher student relationships, and i question the mind of someone over 21 still enticed by anyone under 18 and not even out of high school yet.
the press makes a big deal of it because we’re all enamored by these type of relationships, and i bet many have felt a certain way about someone they shouldnt have, but never told anyone about it. humans have been forced into a fear based society, where individuality is shitted on, and “taboo” topics have no outlet except now currently through the internet, or in the past you had dirty books which still had their limitation. i know what your saying, and yes, im not opening the flood gates for pedophilia and improper indiscretions with adults and kids (anyone under 18 is a kid by law i believe), but in reference to the media obsession, its part thats how the world is now as they try to fill their websites and news feeds with content, its also part of a fascination people have with these type of indiscretions, as they might have had some themselves, or at least thoughts of it, and for the intellectually inclined it opens up a large discussion of attraction, what is the real appropriate age for you to be able to sexually explore yourself with anyone else regardless of age, and a host of other blah blah blah.
its funny because i remember girls always being with older guys in high school, and it was whatever. they picked them up in their cars after they graduated, and that was that, but no crazy shit, but still technically illegal shit between like 16-17 and 20-23 year olds. i mean you even saw it in movies, the high school girls trying to bang college guys. i mean certain people are attracted to a certain thing, and its just genetics, but i mean girl if youre looking for someone who looks like a 17 year old, but is of age, and has either a lot going for him, or nothing at all, just go outside. lol. theyre all over the place. so clearly the attraction is something else, or maybe spur of the moment. you always get very little to any details of these cases, and none of them really want any attention afterwards, so you dont see blogs, memoirs or books about how they felt, what happened, etc.
i think there is a pretty big difference between 15 and 18. who i was in the tenth grade was not me in the 12th. at 15, even though i had a late birthday, i was in the tenth grade. you arent doing shit but playing video games and acting out dragon ball z shit then. lol. i was working by 16 though, and i had done summer jobs before that. but 16 i was working, 17 i was working full time and in the 12th grade, but no car or license, and i was growing a bit then, but in hindsight i was still pretty emotional fragile, and being dumb. i was just fucking, drinking, smoking weed, and thinking im some sort of grown. but at 15 i wasnt close to anything other then a library computer, printing out pictures of trunks from dbz and tracing it at my friends house while eating lunch his mom made us.
so yeah, 17-18 depending on your life you can have a decent amount going on, a car, license, job, college in the fall, great career, but at 15 your just a horny shit head doing nothing with your day, and 17-18 youre not much better, but you may be able to fulfill basic requirements that get the pussy wet. we just expect a 22 year old woman who is a teacher, and has already been through all that dumb shit isnt sitting with someone 6 years younger then her or so, and being like omg i wouldnt mind sucking his cock right now in the middle of studies, or while my boyfriend or husband is out of town for the weekend.
if you sat down me and a 15 year old right now, i dont care if that bitch is vida guerra, im NOT interested. 16,17,18, etc… at the very least i would slip on an 18 year old cause i know i cant go to jail, but even saying that in a hypothetical makes me feel odd. give me a nice 25 year old reformed slut, or a 38 year old divorced female with no kids, a body and a face that wont quit, and a pussy throbbing for dick for over 6-8 months. im just not interested in anyone not at least 21.